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Subject: Re: To baby or not to baby...

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Pat

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Date Posted: 10/ 9/06 3:18am
In reply to: Lisa 's message, "To baby or not to baby..." on 10/ 5/06 8:40am

Hi, Lisa,

Sorry to take so long to write to you. I have been having computer problems.

We women are pregnant for nine months for a reason. It's so we get ready to be mothers. By the time your baby is born, you will be ready to be a mother. Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into anything. It would be the worst possible thing for your relationship to have an abortion. Your baby is depending on you for your protection. Please protect your baby!

Financial things can be tough, but you do have time to plan ahead. If you breastfeed your baby and keep things simple, it won't cost that much. You can get medical care and other kinds of help by visiting a crisis pregnancy agency. Here is a site that will tell you where the nearest one to you is located:

Unplanned Pregnancy and Abortion Information

They can also help you sort things out so that you are making it financially. Maybe you need an apartment which is better and in a better location but costs less. A friend of mine had that experience. Someone helped her find one, and then she didn't have any more huge problems, and was able to go ahead and have her baby. It would be criminal to force you to destroy your baby over that issue! Also, abortion is actually medically risky, and I wouldn't want you to get hurt. They'll tell you it's safe, but it's not.

Good luck with this! Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. Remember: abortion is forever; you can't take it back. Be VERY sure before you do something like that, because the minute a woman has an abortion, she no longer has any choices.

Hugs,
Pat

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