I need a phscic's help! -- Psychic & Spiritual Oracle Public Forum

[ Show ]

Support VoyForums

[ Shrink ]

VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: [1], 2, 3, 4 ]

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 21:13:36 04/07/04 Wed
Author: Nadia
Subject: I need a phscic's help!

There is so much going on in my life right now. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and 9 months now. In the beginning everthing was going great until he started to change and didnt treat me the same way that i was treating him. I would put him before me and would do anything for him. If he needed something right away I would drop what i was doing and bring it to him. He was sick for a week and i was there everyday giving him food, medicine and comfort. But then when i got sick and asked him to come over and hang out with me he just told me to get some rest and he hung out with his other friends. I didnt think that i deserved that when i treated him like gold. So we agreed on going on a break. Three days later i was invited to go on a sky trip with my friend(a guy) and some of his friends from Oneonta that i work with. So becuase of everything that was going on with me and my boyfriend i decided to go to get my mind of everything. Well the first night i went away with my friend we went to a bar with his friends. I had alot to drink and got buzzed really fast because I dont normally drink. We winded up hooking up that night. Now if i was sober i wouldnt have done that cause i am not like that. But because I was drunk and wasnt in the right state of mind I let my old feelings come back for this guy and one thing led to another. When i got back home from the trip I talked to my boyfriend about it (at the time we were on a break though) and he was so hurt by what happened. He considers it cheating but i dont think so because we were on a break. I got REALLY sick after the trip and i looked up some of my symptoms and I think that i was drugged. Anyway, after this happened we completely broke up for a month. I figured we both needed to think about things and needed the time apart for alittle bit. Well I learned that i really loved him and wanted him. And i asked him back out and he said yes. But now he is saying that he doesnt trust me and that he has second thoughts about alot of things. He doesnt include me anymore to parties with his friends and he hates when i go to work becuase that guy who i hooked up with works there. HE doesnt understand that i wouldnt do anything at work or ever. It was only becuase i was drunk. How can we have a relationship without trust? And he always says that he wants to get me back for what i did. That he wants to hook up with someone so I know how it feels. I think that i childish in a way. Two wrongs dont make a right. But i just dont know what to do. I love him so much but is there a future for us? I am only 18,almost 19(4/21/85 is my birthday) but i really love him. He still treats me the same way as he used to sometimes though. I still do everything for him. He started to do more for me but not that much. I just dont know what to do. I am young and should be enjoying my life right now but I usually go to bed crying. I wish that i never went away on the trip but then i dont know if i would have realized how much i really loved my boyfriend if i hadnt because it was after that experience that i came to see that. Can you help? DO you have any suggestions for me? At this point I could use all the help i can get!

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Replies:

Re: I need a phscic's help! -- Naomi, 23:52:30 05/22/04 Sat