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Date Posted: 08:54:12 07/11/03 Fri
Author: Traci
Subject: Will I ever get my ex fiance back?

my ex and I were best friends for three years, then we were together for three years and two months. I love him deeply with all of my heart, but now he has left me. We started having problems about a year and a half into our relationship. For some reason, he started finding it difficult to be affectionate to me. The kisses, hugs, and intimacy stopped almost all together. He said that we was trying to be affectionate, but it just wasn't in him. I feel maybe in some way I pushed him too hard, or maybe I was too clingy. Of course, people never see that it may have been their fault until too late. SO, I nagged him for the lack of hugs and kisses and I was so affection starved by the time he'd give them to me, I would be overly clingy. Well, anyway, he woke up one day and decided he wasn't in love with me anymore and we split up. It's been three months. I live in my own apartment now and am going crazy missing him. We still talk. However, he is wishy-washy. Sometimes he wants to hang out with me and sometimes he wants to blow me off. Then, sometimes he'll act like he did when we were going out. I am confused. Through out the past 6 years we have been separated, for what ever reason, about 5 times, but we always end up coming back to each other. I love him with all of my heart and I don't know what I will do if I've lost him permanantly. He has been my world for so long. So, I just wanted to know if we will come together yet again, or if everything we had is lost forever.

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