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Date Posted: 19:28:39 12/21/03 Sun
Author: Passion
Subject: Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back.
In reply to: Armando Palomino 's message, "Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back." on 11:24:29 02/20/01 Tue

Hey there I was just surfing the internet looking for girlfriends breaking up with their boyfriends sites and I stumbled onto this one. I guess the way I felt for mine was the same as most people. Me and my ex-girlfriend went out 3 years ago for a few months but I was still in highschool. It wasn't serious but we didn't cheat on each other. I broke up with her in search of meeting new girls. She never got over the breakup and called me all the time. I ended up taking her virginity, and she did a lot of her first things with me. We were broken up for over a year and a half and stopped talking. I never dated anyone else but I did hook up with a lot of girls including a 31 year old divorcee with 3/kids that was my co-worker. She ended up having another boyfriend for a year and she had sex with him plenty of times also. I always knew she still liked me and finally when I was ready to go back out with her we got back together. That was February 2003. We had plenty of fights but also plenty of happy times. We were almost soulmates, we had so much past together but I think the year long break in the middle made it very hard on both of us. She couldn't get over my past and I couldn't get over hers at first. About 3 months of going back out I realized past wasn't important and I got over her ex-boyfriend but she never got over mine. I think there was always trust issues and That led to her not wanting me to talk to any other girls. Soon enough that led into her not wanting me to hang out with my friends because she thought we would be out at places. I loved her with all my heart and I didn't want to break up and I tried on countless times to explain that this jealousy and distrust will only lead to a disfunctional relationship but she never understood. This led me to lying to her so I could go hang out with my friends. I had a journal that I kept since 8th grade that had things from my life in it, including school, parents, drugs and girls. She wanted me to throw it away because it had girls in it. I did it because I wanted to be with her and she gave me the speech about is my journal more important than her. So I threw it away which I thought was bullshit to do. Eventually She gave me so much shit that a girl i went out with a long time ago called me up and we started talking. Me and my girlfriend were broken up and the other girl wanted to come over and I said yes. She made a move on me in my room and we made out for like 10 minutes. I took her shirt off and felt her up and everything but no sex. My girlfriend(we broke up and went back out like 20 times) found out about the other girl and couldn't get over it. I cried about it. I cried at home and I cried at work.I took days off work cuz I was so depressed even though I was the cheater and not the cheatee. I promised I would never do that again and I never did. That was back in september and since then I was a perfect boyfriend. We had our differences but always tried to stay together. Finally she broke up with me about 2 weeks ago saying that it was over for good. Shes been partying and getting with guys almost everynight since then and I've been sitting at home. I was a player before I was with her but now I feel like my hearts been ripped out. I tried to go to a party last nite and I was looking hot and everything but I just couldnt get myself to go, instead I drove up to a mountain and cried in my truck for about 30 minutes. I cried about girls twice in my life, once was in september when I cheated on her and the other was last night. Now do you guys think I'm in love or do you think I need to forget my girlfriend and move on with my life. She told me she got sick of me not paying attention to her, because when I would get home from work at like 12 I would just want to go to sleep and she got mad that I didn't want to see her. I thought it was a little ridiculous but my fear is that sometimes you think you may only have love once in your life and what if I never get that back. I mean I know I'm the better person here because I've never been selfish with her or told her what to do but do you think that I should wait and give her time to realize what's important? Or should I move on? And I don't know about anyone else but it doesn't seem like most people care when someone they love break up and they have sex with someone else and then eventually they get back together. I get visions in my mind of when we have sex, only shes on the bottom with some other guy now and that hurts so much to think about. i don't know if i I could take her back after that but that might be because I took her virginity? What do you guys think I should do here, just back off or continue to try to win her back? If your still awake after reading this please let me know. Thanks

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