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Date Posted: 08:41:43 06/08/04 Tue
Author: Sue
Subject: Friendship or affair?

My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married almost 3.
He has cheated on me in the past, but I have always tried to put it aside, last year he became good "friends" with his friends wife, they were e mailing, talking on the phone and it seemed like they were always trying to find an excuse to do things, last May or June I told him that it bothered me that they talked, he told me that he just likes talking to her, in August he left me, about a week or two later she kicked her husband out, I know that they talked alot about the kind of marriage that they each had, 2 months before this her and her husband were planning on having another child, all of a sudden she is no longer happy? I was devastated, he told me that he needed to find himself, and that he just needed space and that it had nothing to do with her. I even tried to talk to her about how I felt and her response was "its not my fault that he does not love you anymore, we were friends longer then you have known him" I just hung up on her. He came back a couple of months later, I know that he has been talking to her I just cannot prove it, I didn't even know that he had a cell phone until I found it in his toolbox, he goes out and don't come home until the next day and won't tell me where he is, he said that he does not want me bothering the only friend he has left nad that he is not at her house, he will take his cell phone EVERYWHERE, we have no service in the town we live in so for him to take it intown makes no sense to me at all.
I just don't know what to do anymore, I have these thoughts that just do not go away, ever! Each time he has cheated I have "felt" it before he told me and I have this same feeling, I cannot believe for one minute that nothing has ever happened between the 2 of them, they are both extremely sexual people and when alcohol is involved...
If anyone has any thoughts or advice on how to help ease my mind I would love to hear them.

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