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Date Posted: 02:08:10 10/27/02 Sun
Author: Steven Marlow
Subject: Re: Getting back my ex-girlfriend
In reply to: andre 's message, "Re: Getting back my ex-girlfriend" on 09:27:43 01/03/01 Wed

She deserves to react the way she does because, as you said, you werent very nice for her. Thats a tricky one, because how can she trust you to be nice to her? You werent before. An idea: do something huge, romantic and really nice to her. That would show that you definately care for her and want her back and are serious about being nice to her. However you could only do that if you get close-ish to her again. Perhaps the first thing you should start doing is just being nice: buying her drinks, being nice to her friends, giving her mum little somethings you picked up, in short becoming a friend. Listening to her problems, asking her how she feels about something, what she thought - basically empathising etc. however this would run the risk of getting too close to be boyfriend material. You could also change slightly - dress differently, new hairdo, slightly change your friends (be closer to the ones that she liked, and distance yourself from the ones she didn't) so that you can attribute your being bad to her as "thats what I was like then - back when i was young and stupid. I've changed." Then, when you're in the right position you could "ask her out for a drink" or even out for a meal. There you could whip out your super-duper "i really care about you" gift and blow her away. Of course, she could laugh in your face and say no, but you can always cancel airline tickets for a refund if you book them far into the future or hand back expensive gifts. I'm thinking weekend away to a place she'd really like to go to, (doesn't have to be far. If she never specified anywhere, theme-parks, nearby famous large cities would be good.) jewelerry etc. Good luck.

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Re: Getting back my ex-girlfriend -- james, 14:17:21 08/30/03 Sat