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Date Posted: Sun, 22 Dec 2002, 13:39:29
Author: jezebel
Subject: Re:
In reply to: Lagerheini 's message, "Re:" on Sun, 22 Dec 2002, 5:20:23

hi anny,
ich glaub, ich kann ganz gut nachempfinden, was du da durchmachst, alle wollen was von dir, und erwarten, das du es genauso machst, wie sie es wollen. dann gibts lob, braves kind, dabei übersehen sie, das du keins mehr bist.
leider ist es im leben immer so, wie dus beschrieben hast anhand der schule. schreibst, oder sagst du das , was sie hören wollen, kriegst du gute noten, nen guten job, usw.
kannst du versuchen, für dich da einen mittelweg zu finden?
also z.b. teilweise nach aussen hin, zu tun, was erwartet wird, und dadurch dir freiraum zu schaffen, und diesen freiraum dafür zu nutzen, das zu tun, was DU möchtest?
und ich denke, du solltest dir erstmal das ziel setzen, allein zu leben, und zu gucken wie es dann ist, ohne den druck der familie, wenn dir das leben dann immer noch genauso nutzlos erscheint, kannst du dich immer noch dagegen entscheiden.

jezebel

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  • Re: -- anny, Sun, 22 Dec 2002, 18:10:59
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