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Date Posted: 15:43:10 02/01/05 Tue
Author: Cactus
Subject: 要求

「和他一起的時侯,你可以對他有要求。
但現在,已經唔可以...」
這是上星期二晚 與朋友吃飯時 她說的一句話
當時 我覺得不太順耳 但我沒有立刻回應
然而它一直在我心中浮現
昨晚 在轉述的情況下 聽見類似的說話
「唉!當你們在一起的時間越久,
你便發覺有越來越多的要求了。」
又是「要求」
你說 這也不是不好 正面一點 有要求才會有改善
但...我好像仍然想不通想不明白

直至今天下午 我才發現在思考的過程中
我遺留了一個重要的原素─「愛」
單單聽見「要求」二字 感覺有點負面
但想到如果那要求是出自愛 那又是完全另一個感覺
如果在要求的過程中也是帶著愛去包容和忍耐 那就正面得多了

也許 這是很簡單的道理
也許 那兩位朋友只是在言談中沒有包括「愛」這個字
現實中 也許我們的出發點都應該會是因為「愛」

但過程中呢?

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[> Re: 要求 -- Belinda, 01:57:49 02/02/05 Wed

我想"要求"symbolize 的是愛也是被愛
因為你在乎所以先會有要求...
也是因為你知你被愛...所以才能要求..
所以小孩會lur媽咪買野俾佢..而唔係lur陌生人..

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