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Date Posted: 18:52:30 04/15/12 Sun
Author: Leah
Subject: To High Line Rider
HLR, if you were serious about being afraid your ex might try to kill you, do something. I'm serious. Get a restraining order; get a good alarm system for your house; do whatever it takes to protect yourself. There are truly a lot more real crazies out there than most people realize. I'm sorry to put this on this fun board, but it's the only way I have to talk to you, HLR. And it could be a serious thing, if you meant it that you are afraid; if he is mad because you got the house, etc. Again, everyone, I'm sorry, but I care. And I know we all do.
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Re: To High Line Rider -- High Line Rider, 07:26:11 04/16/12 Mon [1]
Yes , I am quite consirned that he will try to do bodily harm to me because he has to pay me alimony for 5 years and he lost everything in the divorce , and he had the audasity to e-mail me when he got home from his honeymoon to tell me > he want's to build a new friend ship relationship with me and could we let by-gone's Be by gone's.
I called my son and he was very angry his dad would stab me in the back yet one more time after 33 years of marriage.
I am lucky about one thing , he lives in western washington , and I'm in Eastern Washington and it's a 7 hour drive to get here. 400 Miles.
I do have Thick Security Bar's on my Cabin for safety.
Those were installed because I have friendly Bear's up here at my Place that peer in my window's.
I changed the Lock On My Door. I keep my Chain Link Gate Pad Locked. I keep my double front Gates Chained and a heavy Pad Lock On it.
I Doubt his new wife would allow him to drive 7 hour's to come over here to my place.
I Talked to my Lawyer and she said if he become's bothersome she'll take out a Restrainibng Order / No Contact Order on Him.
I had to File Domestic Violence Charges Against Him in May of 2011 For Grabbing Me and Shaking Me Violently Because I Found A Picture of his Girl Friend In Our Truck.
I wouldn't Hesitate To Use Force If Necessary Leah.
He Carry's a Gun , But Has a CWP License , so do I.
Our Adult son (age 30) is aware his father is Unstable and he'd Unleash all Hell if his father hurt me.
I want to Thankyou Everyone on this Entire Bonanza Board For Being My Dearest Friend's And Caring About Me.
I Treasure All Of You Dearly. It's Really a Blessing To Know I Have Friend's That Care.
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Re: To High Line Rider -- Joe H., 12:25:51 04/16/12 Mon [1]
Time to haul in some quick sand?
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Re: To High Line Rider -- High Line Rider, 14:03:12 04/16/12 Mon [1]
He had the Nerve to e-mail me when he got home from his honeymoon to say > Can we still be friend's , No Hard Feelings ??
I Read That e-mail and Cried for Hour's on end you guy's.
He just Twist's The Knife more and more.
I don't deserve the mental abuse he's Inflicting.
Where I Live I have Huge Grizzley Bear's Up here. 1000 pounders. If He come up here , which I doubt , I'll sic' my Grizz on Him.
Divorced Last Tuesday eve , he married Her Thursday morning. My adult son was fighting Man and Told Him Don't You Think Your Rushing Things Abit Dad , not even 48 Hour's have Elapsed. The X Replied "We're So In Love and are excited to be Joined As One Unit".
Don't worry you guy's if he does Come Over Here to Hurt Me , I'll Have The County Sheriff Here Even if I Have To Hold Him at Gun Point till they arrive.
I do Fear for my Safety. My Son Would Be Here Just as Fast as the cops ,and My Son would Cold Cock His Dad if he injured me.
But The X has a 7 hour drive to get here.
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Re: To High Line Rider -- adamseve, 15:44:37 04/16/12 Mon [1]
I hope this is a new beginning for you also. You deserve it. adamseve
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Re: To High Line Rider -- High Line Rider, 16:51:47 04/16/12 Mon [1]
Thankyou Adamseve , I Really need to find a new beginning.
But it's hard when you've been married to the love of your life and he Betray's you after 33 years.
I've almost been to a suicidal point because I don't see how I can go on , but trust me , my life is far more important then the pain (Mental & Physical & Verbal )
That he's placed upon me. Plus he has to Pay Me Big Buck's For 5 Years in Alimony due to our Lengthy Marriage.
I'm Not Going Anyplace Till He Pay's It Off.
I Can't Help But Wonder If He'll Kill Himself To Get out of paying it. He's Unstable Enough.
Thankyou again everyone for your Kind Reply's.
I've Been Hurting So Bad. I Haven't Slept In Day's.
I'm sooooo Tired*
I Just Want To Start Anew*
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Re: To High Line Rider -- adamseve, 06:32:28 04/17/12 Tue [1]
High line, you will never "get over" this but time does heal. You will learn to deal with it and things will slowly get better. Keep busy and do things now for YOU. Laugh every day. "I Love Lucy" usually does it for me. Remember Coco Chanel's advice to always look your best because you never know who you'll meet at the grocery store. I'm still waiting for that. I think I need to hang out at Home Depot more (lol). We are all here for you. adamseve
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Re: To High Line Rider -- High Line Rider, 19:50:25 04/17/12 Tue [1]
I Would Love to meet someone to be my friend that would take me out to a movie or a Burger at MacDonalds.
And I'd pay my portion. I will not let someone pay my way.
I've got my horse's to keep me busy. I have a child hood friend that knew me at our ranch and she lives about 40 Miles from me and she wants to come up with her Big Buckskin Quarter Horse Filly and Her And I will Ride All Summer. She Train's Horse's Still , Like I Use To Do.
We were childhood Saddle Pal's*
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Re: To High Line Rider -- Leah, 20:11:46 04/16/12 Mon [1]
IF I could do anything to help, I certainly would. I know you are hurting in many ways. I know how it feels to be soooo tired of everything that you just can't feel like you can go on. But you can go on. And you can start anew. I have never gone through anything like that with my husband, but I was almost killed by a crazy, and it goes on in so many ways with court trials, threats, PTSD, etc. I won't go into any more, but I can tell you that I somewhat understand what you are going through, and I pray for your help safety, and new start.
Leah
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Re: To High Line Rider -- High Line Rider, 22:40:31 04/16/12 Mon [1]
Thankyou so much Leah , He was a wonderfull husband up untill 2 years ago , and that's when he got board and began using his PC at work to Troll the dates sites for women to chat with , well he bragged and boasted everything he owned and said he was a widow and his wife died horribly , he called me on mother's day from work last year and said get out , I hate your gut's I've got someone else , I Told Him You Get Out , I'm Staying , That's When I found a picture of his 300 pound honey in our truck and that's when he beat me up called the cops and pressed Domestic Violence charges against him.
He is extremely angry about that , he wasn't charged by a prosicutor because I needed broken bones to go to a Jury trial , not just bruises. He doesn't know that , I never told him , but he does have 1 strike against his name.
I do Fear for my Safety Leah because he has to pay me A Large Sum of Money By 5 Years and that has caused him to go into debt and he's very Angry he can't buy his new wife a large house . They have to remain in her tiny house.
By eliminating me that money wouldn't have to be paid then.
I worry he'll sneak here at night and torch the place.
He Threatened to do it once before if I Wasn't The One To Vacate This Residence , and my Lawyer is aware of This.
I have an Arsonel of Pistol's & Rifles Here.
I won't Hesitate To Use them If My Life Is Threatened with Bodidly Harm & Death.
He's a Diabetic and it's messed his brain up really bad and that's partially to blame due to Brain Cell Loss & Damage.
I Pity his new wife , he told me he hated her 300 Pound's of Obesity and her 11 Kid's and the X Husband in her basement.
Yet , There He Lives.
I would give anything on Earth To Meet A Nice Man In his Middle 50's (or Younger , hahaha) And Find Happiness once More. I forgot what it was Like to recieve a kiss.
That's been Year's and same with a Hug or anything else.
Guess I'll Just Have Resort To Being An Old Spinster Cow Girl.
It Hurt's when you lose the Love Of Your Life In this Manor.
I would have Rather he Died.
I'll Be Back Out Riding The Fence Line Some Day.
If I Can Pull Myself Up In The Saddle Once More.
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Re: To High Line Rider -- Leah, 19:36:39 04/17/12 Tue [1]
I can understand everything you said. And I hope that nice man in his middle 50s, or younger :), shows up for you. He may very well be out there somewhere just waiting for you.
Love and prayer from your friend,
Leah
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