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Date Posted: 04:32:09 11/24/02 Sun
Author: haize
Subject: a message i found

Hi everyone !

I’m a 25 years old boy for Hungary. I was very happy, that
I could find an eGroup like this. As you might guess, I
have the same kind of big and protruding ears, like most of
you have here.
As I’am a boy, my story with ears started in an other way
like that of girls. I have been teased a lot, but even
worse, I was pulled by them a lot…
I began to struggle with them already at the age of 11 in
the primary school. At the opening ceremony of the school
year I was misconducting myself in a row of children, and
as I had big ears (short hair), I was pulled out from the
row, by one of the teachers and pulled through the whole
gymnasium with my left ear in the hands of the teacher. It
happened in a very eye-catching way, the whole school was
staring at me being pulled by my ears. From this time on I
was thought in the school as “the bad guy with protruding
ears”, so teachers, who didn’t pay any attention to my ears
before, begun to punish me by pulling my ears. First I
thought, that it will pass by, when time goes, but it came
even worse.
I was not a really good boy, I did all the bad things, that
boys in that age do, so I gave all the opportunity to them
to continue pulling my ears. After a while I became a lot
of nicknames, all of them pointing out the size of my ears.
My school mates, especially girls, loved my big ears a lot
and lead each other to pull my ears between lessons. I
hardly couldn’t escape, as they came three or four together…

There was only one teacher in the school, who was aware of
the things, happening to me, and tried to help me and
suggested me to undergo a plastic surgery. I was thinking
about it, but I couldn’t speak about it with my parents (I
didn’t have money for that) and anyone, so I remained big
eared…

Once one of my teacher, actually a math teacher, a 50 year
old women told me, that “However you have very big and
protruding ears, you don’t have the biggest and most
protruding ears, I have ever seen, but you have the most
fascinating ears to pull.” This might have been true, as I
was pulled by my ears a lot at several other places, not
only in the school. I was a real attraction, when I was
pulled by my ears. Everybody was just starring at the
situation, that a boy with huge ears is in a trouble. A big
laugh was often coming, and I was always enormously alone,
when my ears were released, and I stood there with one or
both of my ears being even more protruding than before and
being enormously red. I was aware of the sizes of my ears,
and I knew, that if I would have these kind of ears, I
would do the same with others, who have, so I didn’t really
paid attention to them.

Te last step in realizing, that my ears are beautiful, and
I don’t have to go to otoplasty was, when I met a girl, who
was loving my ears. She was a class mate of mine, but she
never pulled them before. When we were going out, she just
asked me, if she could pull my lovely big ears. She was in
love with them and was upset all the time, when she could
pulled them. After this I realized, that I have a big-big
value through my ears and it didn’t matter who and why
pulled and teared my ears. And I was pulled many times, I
can say.

Although I got to a grammar school and later to the
university all these things didn’t finished really, but the
number of ear pulls decreased a bit. But somehow I was
proud of my ears (like Tina did) and didn’t want to do
anything to avoid my ears to be pulled. Once I was asked by
two girls on the street, they asked me, how can I have ears
like these. They asked me funnily, whether they could pull
my DUMBO’s, and they were surprised, when I told them, of
course, if you want. They were pulling both of my ears at
both sides and we were laughing a lot about my ears. People
were looking at us and they laughed as well.

I’m proud, that my ears stick out of my head and I was
never more thinking about otoplasty or anything like this.
The biggest temptation comes, when my birthday and name day
comes. These days are full of earpulling, as almost all the
people I know, are aware, that my ears can be pulled on
these days, and they are preparing themselves for these
days. It comes sometimes strange, when I travel on the
underground and I meet someone, who I know, and she or he
immediately pulls my ear in front of the crowd, and my ear
starts to get red, and I feel that all the people are
looking at my ears like “how can a man have such big ears?”
In Hungary it is not common to show body parts, that
doesn’t look normal. Even if a lot of people have bigger
ears than normal, they try to hide them all the time. For a
boy like me it would have been much more harder, as I have
flat hair (again that problem with ears ticking out from
all the hair styles), and otherwise I don’t like long hair.
So I seem to be a bit “out of fashion” here.
I was asked by people several times about otoplasty, but
they were surprised about the facts, that I’m proud of my
ears. Almost all of them would have done otoplasty.

The special on my ears, I think is that, they are very
loose and elastic form the pulling. It seems, as it could
be lengthened to any size.


Bye:
Tamas

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