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Date Posted: 09:22:56 06/03/02 Mon
Author: Jana~
Subject: Re: My review of the fic...
In reply to: Natchou 's message, "My review of the fic..." on 08:48:28 06/03/02 Mon

Thanks for the feedback.

In answer to your question: My husband and I have been having problems for a long time. We were VERY young when we got married, and our oldest daughter was actually born before we got married. Statistically, it's amazing we've lasted this long. We've had problems from the very beginning, but like I said in the story, we didn't want to become a statistic and just 'give up'.

But after the accident, things got worse. We just merely exist in the same general space now. He doesn’t hate me (although I know he, on some level, resents me), but he doesn’t love me either. He's not really a husband, he's more like a man who just happens to sleep in the same bed as me. But, we have kids together, and we're going on 13 years of marriage, so, obviously 'leaving' him wouldn’t be an easy decision.

As for leaving him for Matthew... trust me when I say, THAT will NEVER become an issue. But, truthfully, if love were to find me, I would CONSIDER leaving my husband. It would NOT be an easy decision to make, and, maybe that makes me a horrible person, but, truthfully, I would consider it.

He knows this is how I feel. He knows I am unhappy. And I have begged and pleaded and threatened and cried... it doesn’t do any good. He doesn’t care enough to, well, care.

But, trust me, this will never be an issue. Men don’t fall in love with fat, deformed, disabled moms with 4 kids.

No, I know I will never know love again, and sometimes, that hurts MORE than the every day physical pain I'm left to endure.

Sorry if now you (Natchou/anyone reading this) has lost any/all respect for me, but, I am a very truthful person, and lying in response to the question wasn’t an option. I could have ignored the question, maybe, but, well, I didn’t. You wouldn’t have asked if you didn’t want to know.

MTLBYAKY

Jana~


>Well, I finished reading it and I thought it was
>pretty good. It was an interesting story and great
>drama...however...(sorry, there's an however)
>
>I don't think you should post it on the net...it's
>pretty apparent that it is about you and if it wasn't
>because you've changed Matthew's name and skipped some
>details, it does look like you're talking about him.
>So, in my opinion, you'd probably get bashed about it,
>sorry:(
>
>But it's not that I didn't like it, it's great and
>everything, but I think you should just leave it in
>your personnal collection if you fear to get
>criticize. Or you could post it in this messageboard
>for us all to see, cause we're not the one to judge,
>are we girls??:)
>
>And, just one last question, you wouldn't leave your
>husband for Matthew if you had the chance like in your
>fic, wouldn't you?? I'm just asking, that's all...:)
>
>Natchou

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