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Date Posted: 10:51:20 08/23/05 Tue
Author: Debbie Edwards
Subject: Re: Questions
In reply to: Stephanie 's message, "Questions" on 16:09:32 08/16/05 Tue

Hello Stephanie,
Please accept my condolences for your loss. I know that this is a very hard time for you. I am glad though to hear that you have recieved such great results by visiting a medium and have been able to acknowledge the little visits and signs from your son since his passing. When you mentioned that they cannot tell you how he passes that is directly coming from your son. Loved ones in spirit do this often when the passing was tragic or when loved ones left behind here cannot get past the actual passing. Sometimes we dwell so strongly on the persons passing that we forget all the other moments of their life. This is not uncommon. Through the process of your grieving you will discover in time that your rememberance of him will become less of his death and more of his life. It is then that you will recieve confirmation of this. They do this to help us actually through the grief process. All answers come as they are meant to come at the moment we can digest them for the most positive results. Your healing process is still one day at a time. Please allow yourself to feel and experience all of the emotions of it. As they flow through you, you will be able to release them and feel better. What has always helped me when a loved one died, was to ask them personally to visit me in dreams and as often as I can, I speak to them and ask for confirmations of what I've said or asked of them. As we solidify through time the continuation of our relationships with loved ones on the other side, the pain of not knowing becomes less. What is important, which you are already experiencing, is that you know your son loves you, he knows that you love him, and it is that very special bond that keeps the two of you connected and able to share this very unique relationship. You are so very blessed. Many people who do not believe in such an experience, often are unable to share in it and they often feel that their loved one is gone completely. Your openness and willingness to communicate with him, allows for this to happen and I'm so glad you've had the results that you've had. Just be patient with yourself. The answers will come in time and when they do, it will all make sense.
Sincerely,
Debbie Edwards

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