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Date Posted: 03:36:47 09/13/05 Tue
Author: Jennifer
Subject: Re: How long?
In reply to: Debbie Edwards 's message, "Re: How long?" on 15:56:52 08/02/05 Tue

>Hello Jennifer,
>I am so sorry for your losses over your brother and
>father. To address something you did not include, I
>want to share with you that many passings happen at
>the moment they are meant to and I do believe that
>your father and brother passed over when they did for
>a very special reason. I know that saying that may not
>help with your grief. If you are wanting to reach out
>to experience an ADC, then your question couldn't come
>at a better time. Just this morning I was thinking
>about this exact thing, about how soon or late loved
>ones come through to say hello. Just remember,
>communication from them is a gradual experience and is
>something that happens over time. Many people assume
>that this is a one time big experience and doesn't
>happen again but it isn't that way. Our relationships
>continue to grow between this side and the other side,
>just as they continue to grow here while we're still
>here. It is a process and many communications happen
>very subtlely. Recieving confirmation that they are
>still a part of your life is part of the healing
>process of greif and loss. Mediumship is not the only
>way to move through the stages of grief but is part of
>it and I do encourage to actually seek confirmations
>on your own first. Mediumship can sometimes be too
>much or too little this soon after a passing so I
>suggest for you to ask for messages to come to you
>personally for now. Ways in which you can do that is
>to say a prayer to the person you are wishing to
>communicate with. Remember, communication is fifty
>percent from us. A nice way to recieve a confirmation
>is to ask him a specific question, let's say about his
>marriage, and ask for him to bring you a specific
>validation that you cannot question. Such as this; you
>can ask that he bring something to you personally,
>something that has to do with his marriage certificate
>or marriage vows or something similar. Be specific
>though in what you request and ask for it to come to
>you personally. Do this while you are alone so that
>when it comes to you, you'll know that this was true.
>You could also ask for them to visit you in dreams.
>This is a way in which we can become more open to what
>they are trying to share with us aside from our own
>grief and doubt. If you are uncertain if it is him
>reaching out, ask that he does it again, and ask for
>as many specific things as you need to for comfort and
>validation. You could ask that he bring you his
>favorite song and when you turn on the radio the next
>time, there it is. That's just a small example. Just
>remember to be patient. We still go through a process
>of change and growth on the other side so if these
>messages don't come through right away it's okay. Each
>person that crosses over experiences it differently so
>it's important to be patient. Just know that any
>prayers and love you send their way, they always
>recieve it. Good luck and thank you for visiting our
>board.
>Sincerely,
>Debbie E


Dear Debbie,
Thank you for your kind words and advice. I have to tell that I was re-reading your reply especially about the favorite song on the radio. It made me realize that Pj (my brother)had been sending me a confirmation all along. While we were in the hospital, waiting for the end. We started sharing little memories about Pj. I had quite a few but one of them was his first album. He was young and he had a thing for that "Devil went down to Georgia" song. He made us listen to it several times a day, everyday.
So for a week, I would turn on the classic rock station here in Orlando and that song would be on. First day I cried, second day I said hello, third day I laughed I realized that he was making me listen to it over and over again. This was a few weeks after he had passed.

Thanks Debbie
Jennifer

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