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Date Posted: 10:51:27 09/13/05 Tue
Author: debbie edwards
Subject: Re: my mom
In reply to: david smith 's message, "my mom" on 16:10:26 09/10/05 Sat

Hello David, thank you for logging on to our board and thank you for reaching out with your questions. Oftentimes we ask for a message or a sign and wait and wait and assume nothing has come to us. Yet many times there are subtleties that actually do come through but because we don't know what to look for or how to identify it, we assume that it is not a sign and keep looking. What really helps to confirm visitations or messages is to define what you want for her to send to you. You mentioned she passed away a year ago and i'm sorry for your loss. I don't know how close you are to the "year" mark but oftentimes we recieve messages or confirmations on the anniversary of a loved one's passing being that it is a special time to reflect and remember them. Reach out to your mother as I'm sure you already do. Say prayers to her and ask for God's help in reaching her. Ask that she come through for you in a very specific way so that when you reiceve it, you'll know it's from her. An example could be to ask that she send you her favorite flower and let's just say a couple days or a week later you recieve a card or a letter or something and the stamp or cover has those specific flowers on it. Many visits or messages come that simple and that subtlely so don't get discouraged. You can also ask that she come to visit you in a dream and to make it strong so that you will remember it. Keep a dream journal with you and write down everything you experience to help you strengthen your dreams. Just be patient with the process and remember, greif doesn't heal in one day or one year. As the experience of greif changes, it also changes how we percieve things in life. You are going through many things right now so don't get worried. Our loved ones know what we need when we need it and sometimes we don't recieve information from them right away because they are working through thier own process of transition also. Just have hope, faith and love and do not be afraid.
with love,
Debbie

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