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Date Posted: 09:08:16 12/01/04 Wed
Author: Zenith
Subject: Re: we miss them so much.
In reply to: Dondra 's message, "we miss them so much." on 14:05:30 11/27/04 Sat

>if you ever hear from my babies please tell them we
>miss them and we will love them forever. is she upset
>at anything or anyone She should be!!!!
>
>
Dear Dondra,

Although your message was not specifically addressed to me by name, I have given you responses in the past as you have asked for and as have spiritually come in, therefore, being once again led to this board, spiritually, as I was, I need to inform you that I feel a great sense that your daughter finds it difficult to understand why you wish to hold on to what happened to them in the past. She is in a much better place now and although she agrees that it is hard, in principle, to release the shock of having lost her and your grandchildren, she wants for you to find *Peace* in your heart at this time. She and the children know you miss and Love them very much and they are very grateful for that. They Love you too, more than you know!

It is nearing Christmas and it is understandable to want to be close to family members and your children, dear one. No one can blame you for that, however, what happened in your daughter's case is something that you cannot repair, unfortunately. It has been done and she is now in Heaven where she continues to care for her children and has no bitterness or remorse about anything regarding the physical life that she left. So in response to your question as to whether she is upset about anything, I see her shaking her head to say "No!". She is emphatic about that and wants for you to know that being upset about what happened while on Earth is not a feeling that one has in the Afterlife. They are past that phase, *well beyond that*. Their life continues without regret and she tells me to inform you that you are expending too much precious energy in a negative manner by trying to think back to what happened to her and the children. Had it not been their time, they would still be here but it was, and as hard as it may seem, their passing is also a part of life and she wants for you to know that.

She wants for you to get over the hurt, more than anything. She feels "held back", as she puts it, when you cannot celebrate her new life with her and would rather think back to what 'might' have been or 'could have happened' had she not left. You see, a spirit cannot truly move on in their continuous spiritual unfoldment when a loved one left behind on Earth continues to miss them so profoundly. That holds them back. While natural to grieve, know that Love continues to hold a strong bond with those in spirit, they will know that you grieve for them and miss them so much that they are unable to ascend to where they should be headed to. That is why they feel "held back". A great gift to give your loved ones would be Forgiveness of the situation and *Prayers* for ALL along with the wish that they be in God's Light. That will help to place them in a better atmosphere with your loving support.

Your daugher is smiling and sends you her Love as well as to the rest of the family. She acknowledges the one called "Pookie" or something like that with great affection. She wants Celebration during this special time of year instead of long faces and hurt. They are all doing well and the children continue to grow. There are special schools there and many kind, loving attendants who look after them. Her relatives who have passed on before your daughter also keep her company, so she is in good hands! They are at Peace and if it were not for the vibrational differences that preclude you from seeing them, you would be able to do so. They want for you to know that they are still very much *with* you and know of your day-to-day activities and will be *forever close* to you with the Love that exists in their heart! Your daughter wants for me to especially stress that for you at this time. The name "Steven" also appears and he may have something to say to you, but it appears that he may be someone you already know.

Pray for your daughter and grandchildren as well as for yourself and work to forgive what happened to them and find the Peace that is rightfully yours! Only then can they truly move on. I send you many hugs, dear Dondra, and hope that you will embrace their new life and get past your hurt by looking towards God's great healing Light and His all-encompassing Love because It Is There for you!

Remember the Rainbows, not the storm.

With Christ Always In Heart,
Zenith

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