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Date Posted: 18:52:33 04/29/03 Tue
Author: Vie
Subject: *is nodding and thinking at same time* strange feeling that is, haha...
In reply to: Tilly 's message, "Vie: because you need to know this..." on 17:08:04 04/29/03 Tue

>Hey chick,

Hell your self^_^

>I feel like I have to say something before anything
>goes on on your board. As you have guessed, it's about
>LQ's not so subtle drawing of me. I just want you to
>be aware (and beware,) that this is how she starts
>things. She isn't the most subtle person in the world,
>and she basically admitted on PR that the drawing was
>of me. (I.e., refusing to talk about it on the grounds
>that it's MIL related. Umm, hello, LQ? You could at
>least pretend to deny it.

I shall keep this in mind and keep an eye on this.

>So, I just wanted you to know that it's this kind of
>passive aggressive BS that she does that gets things
>started; my guess is that she wants to start
>something--why else would she post a drawing she did
>of me, say that it was pertaining to that
>situation, and then post it on PR, if she didn't want
>the entire thing to come out on PR? Then, of course,
>she declines to comment in words because she
>knows it'll get you all up in her grill.

I will keep a close watch on it and make sure nothing happens. If something does I'll just close the topic and say that if anyone else says one more thing they are banned, all right?

>I know that you're bright enough to be aware of what
>she's up to; seems that you don't miss much. But I
>wanted you to know that I know what she's up to, as
>well.

Yea, I have my doubts up in my head. But she's a good artist so I kinda just keep them hidden. And yes, as I said, I will keep a close eye on it like I keep a close eye on everything that goes on in my forum.

>And Vie, if she does keep on going with this drawing
>thing ("Here's a drawing I did of Tilly being evil,
>only let's pretend that I didn't post this, OK?") and
>if escalates, don't sweat it, OK? Because the one
>thing you seem to keep forgetting is that it's just
>the internet. ;) Turn it off, and the annoying
>people and arguments all go away. It's just words. In
>LQ's case, it's just a likeness of me doing naughty
>things. Believe me, I'm not bothered by it; I think
>it's actually pretty funny. I even sort of have a
>summer blouse like the one she drew, only not as low
>cut. ;D

Well said. I'll try to remember that next time I get mad at something with this thing. I'm just really sensitive so everything bothers me sadly, lol.

>I'm not bothered by the pic; only by her passive
>aggression, you see? And even that doesn't really rile
>me. It annoys me a little that she thinks no one is
>going to catch on, but that's the extent of it. So,
>like I said, no worries. 'Kay? ^_~


I see. As I said quite a few times I'll keep my eye on it, since it wasn't written words I can't yell at her because I said nothing about no drawings, you know? But if she starts complaining about it I will do something about it. and all right, no worries^_^

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