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Date Posted: 12:07:30 05/14/03 Wed
Author: TZA
Subject: Re: So then don't do it.
In reply to: Tilly 's message, "So then don't do it." on 11:31:04 05/14/03 Wed

Tilly, grow up. Yes, she said racist, homophobic, evil things in the past. And every time you strike out at her for what she did in the past, you are letting it continue to have a hold over your life. You haven't stolen her art or her stories or made shrines to her, but this MST crap of something she said is just as immature. Grow up. Don't stoop to that level. But if you do, don't bitch and whine and moan when/if she responds in kind. If you want to have some leg to stand on when she retorts, take the high ground and be mature. If you don't want it, don't sling it out. If you really want to make her look like an ass, taking the higher ground will serve that end best, because lowering yourself will strip you of credibility. I'm sorry you've been hurt in the past. But that is the past. Quit picking at the wound.

I have no plans to bait her. That doesn't mean I'm not going to comment about what I see others doing, and it bothers me to see people ganging up on her and relentleslly picking on her and taunting her and baiting her like a crowd of vindictive first graders. For all her faults, she does not deserve this. Tilly and everyone else who feels they have an excuse to torment her endlessly, you come out looking like shit in comparison, and you're rapidly loosing credibility in many eyes. I'm starting to see where she's coming from with the ideas of people being out to get her. Because, frankly, many of you are. You love nothing more than to leap upon her every foible and publicly rip it apart and shred it and mock her. Grow up!

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