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Date Posted: 04:59:32 04/12/03 Sat
Author: Violet
Subject: Re: Personal moral debates
In reply to: CC 's message, "Re: Personal moral debates" on 23:04:13 04/11/03 Fri

>*snug* Well, Vie, for your sake I've considered
>stopping posting over here, because I'm of the opinion
>that it's not fair to stress you out. I try very hard
>not to upset things on your board, to the point of
>being polite to everyone, even her.

You shouldnt' have to leave because of someone...if you like it there you have complete right to be there...you only post about her if she's posting about you...which I think you have full right to defend yourself so that's why I'm not yelling at you or some of the others...I've yet to see anyone post about LQ...maybe once, but they never said names..*shrugs* but then again it was mean for LQ to not reply...if she didn't want to talk she could have at least replied and said so...

I'm getting pissed because LQ has yet to reply to my pm and it had some really valid points>.< (if you want to read it let me know and I'll post it)'

>But, I need somewhere to vent, too. I admit, she
>bothers me. But, I'm glad to see that you do stand up
>to her, it's not easy to say 'no' to a friend. But at
>the same time, look at it this way, would a real
>friend let you walk all over them? That's not
>friendship at that point. So by standing your ground,
>you are establishing a basic desire for mutual
>respect. This is important in any friendship.

You have the total right to vent and say what you want...but if it has to do about LQ then keep it off the board bedcause it makes to much uneeded attention and bickering...and yea, I know real friends do not do that...believe me i do...I've delt with it all my life...I'm finally getting the back bone to stand up for myself...and you know what, you guys are half the reason I'm getting it...because after I talked to LQ I finally got the backbone to stand up to my friend Kelsey who's a major bitch who couldn't care a rat's ass about me...she always has some excuse why she doesn't want to hear about what's been going on with me...

Then she goes off and says I don't care about her...the first thing I say to her when I see her is "Hi Kelsey...how are you feeling? You feeling better?" and it's like argg...she has something wrong with her stomache alsors(sp?) so she thinks that everyone must listen to her and only her...my dad says that next time she acts like that that i should say "If your going to be an ignorant bitch maybe you should just die" because she keeps saying "I'm going to die maybe because of my stomache alsors, I don't don't need to worry about other people" and what's funny is I was just telling her about my day...not asking for help or anything...I listen to her, I talk to her, I give, I share, I do so many things for her and what do I get in return? A total bitch, that's what...well I've finally decided I can't take it anymore, if she's going to be a bitch, well so am I^_^

Plus now that I'm in this play I've made a bunch of new friends with the play group...and they want to know about me and my day and what's been going on. It feels good to feel wanted like that, that it does^_^

Well I shall shut up now, byebye!

Love,
Violet Rose, Violet, or just Vie.

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