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Date Posted: 06:15:08 04/14/03 Mon
Author: TZA
Subject: Perpetual victims
In reply to: Elfie-chan, Lurker Child 's message, "Re: Tilly you were right.........we can all kiss LQ's "Creamy white ass"" on 13:28:05 04/11/03 Fri

>My theory: If LQ would admit when she's wrong and not
>just try to shift all the blame onto other people,
>people would respect her more.

You know that, I know that, we all know that, but she can't/won't face reality. Everyone else is always at fault for what goes wrong in her life. It's never her. She's not paranoid, the world *is* out to get her.

>LQ is someone to be pitied for her unfortunate
>blindness toward herself and others.

Yup. And people who have a grip on reality get sick of her self-pitying shit and the perpetual "Oh, woe is me! I'm so innocent, and the big meanies keep hurting me!" act that they go find someone who doesn't blame the world for all their problems, and when they do have troubles, they do more than just sit on their bum and whine. And, yes, that's what she does. Whine. Granted, I've only interacted with her online, so maybe she is actually putting her money where her mouth is, but as it appears online, she whines and does nothing. Such as with the friends who 'betrayed' her. She whined about it, but did she actually cut the ties like she said she should? I get the idea she likes the pain and suffering just so she can whine and get attention and play the martyr. Whatever. If you express your frustrations/anger/sadness, then go about doing something to try to aleviate/end it, that's one thing. But if you just sit there and bitch and whine and moan, but do nothing but sit and bitch and whine and moan, you're annoying and need to be slapped upside the head and told to get a life. Oh, yes, and grow up. I've dealt with a lot of shit in the past few years, and facing the fact that I have contributed to it has been hard. And I've been diagnosed with mental illnesses that contributed to the problem, so it wasn't something I had control over, but now that I know, I'm trying to do something about gaining control. Yes, I vent, but I'm trying to do something about it. People who bitch about how people are mean annoy me. Yes, people are mean. Welcome to reality on planet earth. Now, shut up and act like an adult, and if they annoy you so much, just don't communicate with them. And if you have to (ie, at work), be polite. But, frankly, your little interpersonal scuffles aren't the world-shattering events you act like they are. I lost three jobs in three months, then had to figure out how to finance going back to school which ultimately entailed taking out loans (an ugly fact of university reality). I moved later that year to live near the school I'm going to now, and the past three months have been a hell of trying to figure out what bills are getting paid this month and how am I going to pay for food and gas, plus dealing with mental illness and paying for therapy and medications, and then there are projects and school work. I'd love to be working a full-time job. You get paid for the time you spend there, instead of paying *them* to be there, and at the end of the day, when you go home, you don't have hours of work ahead of you for what you just spend the last eight hours on (usually). And I'm moving again in May to go to a school several states away, so I have more stuff to deal with. And I don't bitch and whine and moan and do nothing about this stuff. I vent, but I try to do something about it. So don't expect my bloody pity, because you'll get none.

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