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Date Posted: 15:34:57 03/04/03 Tue
Author: Violet
Subject: It's called trying to help someone out...that's why...
In reply to: Bold Font 's message, "Comments are welcome from EVERYONE." on 09:12:10 03/04/03 Tue

Like the title says. I was trying to help bold out because, like she says, I am a graphic designer and I'm not a newbie in this subject. It's also called I was trying to help her out because she's about one of the only people who's really been nice to me on this boards. I don't feel that any of you are really willing to give me a chance...and maybe you do want to, but you sure aren't acting like it. (What’s funny is I’m still willing to give you guys a chance.) That’s why I stopped posting or trying to get more entwined into the boards. Plus it doesn't help when I get grounded off the computer a lot and get really busy a lot because of my site, school, or other things. Plus I lost the URL to it once or twice when my comp screwed up so I had to go search it out again.

Maybe if you guys really tried to get to know me you'd see I'm not a bad person like you think LQ is. I'm not that mean, and the only reason I defend my "purple and black forum" is because I put a lot of work into it and I am very protective of my friends and of things I am very proud of and work hard on (which my forum is one of those things)

Now instead of just judging people on little things like posting to defend the things that shouldn't even be made fun of in the first place why don't you give people you don't even really know a chance. I really thought you people were good people, unlike what LQ may have said and I still think some of you are (I will not name names) and it would be really mean of you to make fun of me or anyone else just because their LQ's friend. (You know that’s the main reason. If it weren’t for your contempt of LQ you would have never found out about Purple Roses or any of my forums or even myself) How would you feel if you were made fun of or picked at until you wanted to cry just because you were friends with someone? Not that I'm to that point. I'm just to the "Pissed off" point, which if you ask my friends in real life is not good. Not good at all. I am very cold and bitchy if I get to much into this point of feeling. So let's all be rational beings like WE SHOULD BE IF WE ARE REALLY ADULTS (or teens in some cases) AND NOT A BUNCH OF WHINING CHILDREN and talk this out instead of trying to get back at people with cruel words and trying to hurt other peoples feelings or make fun of them.

Now come on people, many of you are adults, if not all of you...try and act a little more civilized. Acting like this is what gets the world into so many wars and a big reason why there is so much violence and pain in this world. Revenge, vengeance, or whatever you call it is NOT GOOD, no matter what you think. Two wrongs will never make a right.

I really don't think it's fair to pick on my forum or my members (other then LQ I suppose. because I know I can't stop you there.) unless we attack you first it's just not fair and you know it. Even my rotten little brother wouldn't do that just because he hated someone and loved harassing him or her and he can be really mean and rotten sometimes. Hell not even my best friend Kelsey, who's the biggest bitch in my whole damn school wouldn't do that...and she's most likely 5-15 years younger then some of you. So why are you acting like this?

I'm not trying to be overbearing, bitchy, or anything else you may think that’s not positive. I'm just confused as to why adults would act like children and tease each other so cruelly. My mom has always told me that when you get to be an adult that people aren't like this. Man was she wrong. If all adults are like this then I don't want to be one. No actually I do want to be one just so I can show people that it's not hard to be respectful and courteous of others. If someone does something wrong once and your still being mean to them a year or more later, then you’re the one being wrong then. If you don’t like what someone writes, then why read it? If you don’t like someone, don’t go attacking their friends or people around them. Attack that person, and that person only unless other people give YOU a problem. If they do nothing to you then they deserve the same from you.

Well that's all I have to say. Don't take what I say the wrong way. I just think it's amusing how you guys act. I've never met a bunch of people who acted so... so… selfishly and cruelly before...sorry to say, but that's how I feel. Good day everyone.

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