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Author:
Caren
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Date Posted: 01:29:19 05/13/14 Tue
In reply to: Hillbilly 's message, "That is the point" on 10:41:42 05/09/14 Fri

I agree he has hit bottom and no I could not forgive Myself but I pray he can forgive himself. It is a terrible thing to live with guilt and not be able to forgive yourself and God does not grade sins so why should we? Gossip in His eyes is as deep a sin as murder yet we forgive ourselves for gossip all the time.

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Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 18:26:26 05/13/14 Tue

A question from a stranger (but I know Caren from another website):

How does it help that person to condemn himself after everyone else, including the Church, has forgiven him?

Scripture says that God desires his SALVATION, not his condemnation. He might FEEL like garbage, but Jesus Christ died for him and Christ did not die for garbage - only for His adopted and loved brothers.

No ????

In faith, Dave
Viva God's Texas
dave@christos.e4ward.com, dpeirce@gmx.com

Our King has died for us... Tell somebody!!
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: You are right Dave


Author:
Hillbilly
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Date Posted: 19:16:16 05/13/14 Tue

we don't know each other and if you knew me you would know that I am not talking salvation here. Once redeemed you are always redeemed.

The best way I can answer you is to ask you to go back and read each post carefully. You will see that I never advocated that he condemn himself. I simple told him that although he could receive forgiveness from all he asked forgiveness of he probably would never be able to forgive himself. He agreed with me. I did not advocate he not try. I simply stated a fact. A fact of my nature and a fact of his nature.

If you go back and read Caren's last post, in effect she agreed with me. She doubted she would ever be able to forgive herself if she committed such an act.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Self-forgiveness


Author:
Dave
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Date Posted: 13:53:30 05/14/14 Wed

I'd have to disagree strongly on that. The person should be encouraged by all who love him to forgive himself; personally, I would never agree with him if he said he couldn't and I would encourage him in self-forgiveness every chance I got.

In faith, Dave
Viva God's Texas
dave@christos.e4ward.com, dpeirce@gmx.com

I no longer have a heart; I gave it to Jesus.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: hi Dave


Author:
dori
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Date Posted: 21:46:09 05/14/14 Wed

I think we've hashed this one out enough, okay? Hillbilly's explained his remarks and now it's time to move on, okay?


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