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Date Posted: 19:51:40 06/15/03 Sun
Author: James Matthews
Subject: Re: Friends in love........
In reply to: Mystic 's message, "Friends in love........" on 08:34:15 02/03/01 Sat

>>the Gods up there must get such a kick out of this
>>dating-thing. I'm sure Cupid is a very amused lil'
>>fella.
>>
>>Haven't seen Him yet--thank goodness! I'm SO
>>embarassed(sp)! I mean, as I'm thinking now, He too
>>must be so amused that a 16YO girl fell for him! UGH,
>>I swear I can't face him anymore--and I see him every
>>week....
> Well, why is it that you have to see him every
>week? Do you work with him cause if you do that has
>got to be embarassing! I had the same dilema with
>Michael we had two of the same classes together and
>after we broke up we would always see eachother which
>would result in us getting back toghther. But now that
>we are not together and we don't even have any classes
>together we both still make it so that we can see
>eachother for a little while each day. We are both
>pathetic! lol

>>
>>Floor (Flo, as we nicknamed her) is great--she bought
>>me a big chocolate candy bar to 'comfort me', and
>>she's continuously asking if I'm okay. Which I am, I'm
>>just embarassed.
>
>One time my friend came over with ice cream, soup, and
>sappy love movies to comfort me after one break up
>with Michael.
>>
>>Do you still hang out with your ex? As in: are you
>>still friends? That must be so hard, especially if you
>>still love him (I don't know if you do)?
>
> Well, the weird thing about me and my ex
>Michael is that we are still best friends and we are
>both in love with eachother. Yes I love him dearly and
>with all of my heart, and he says he does me and he
>does things to show it, but the problem is that he is
>a 16 yr old boy who just can't hold a commitment. We
>hang out all the time at lunch, and if he doesn't have
>to work he will either come to my house or I will go
>to his. It's just weird........we love eachother so
>much that we can't be torn apart for good.......I mean
>it has already been over a year that I have been
>invloved with him. Sometimes he does the sweetest
>things.......for example: Yesterday I had gotten
>really upset because me and him were supposed to get
>offically back together on our one year anniversary
>date to start over again fresh (which is January 27),
>but he never asked me out that day because he couldn't
>come over and he is the type of person who likes to
>ask questions like that in person. So I was real upset
>all day. Me and Michael share both of our lockers he
>uses mine and I use his. Well my 4th period books are
>in his locker. Well, I was in 4th period chatting with
>some of my friends (2 girls, 1 guy) all about me and
>Mike and everything that has to do with me and Mike,
>so they knew I was upset too. Well towards the end of
>class I open my notebook to take my homework out to
>place in my book (keep in mind this is the first time
>I have opened this notebook) and right there in bright
>red on notebook paper he had written:
>
> "I Love You,
> so be
> Happy, mom to be"
>
>I started crying because it made me so happy because
>of the fact that he thought of me enough to grab my
>folder, open it up and write something in there as a
>surprise for me. That was just the sweetest.

>
>>
>>What I've been wondering for some time now, why do we
>>fall in love with people who do not love us back? Why
>>do we get attracted to them, if they aren't attracked
>>to us? To use the Cupid metaphor--why does he shoot
>>people without shooting the Significant Other of the
>>person? I mean, it's so pointless.
>
>Well, I know what you mean there........I guess it is
>just supposed to be that we are falling in love with
>all the wrong people. The only explanation I have for
>myself when I am attracted to someone and their
>feelings aren't mutual is that "It just wasn't meant
>to be obviously, because if it was he would feel the
>same way about me." Usually that comforts me.
>>On that same note--why do we get attracted to someone
>>at all? What is it in that person that attracts us?
>>Right now, it seems to me arranged marriaged may be a
>>good solution to a lot of problems...I'm just a little
>>disillusioned with Love right now.
>
>Love sure did hand you the "short end of the stick"
>here in this situation huh? Keep in mind though that
>we have the rest of our lives ahead of us to find the
>"one" for us, but the strange thing is that whenever I
>am with Michael (or not) I always feel like he is the
>"one" and he says the same of me. We both know that we
>are meant for eachother, if only we had met when we
>were older, because then he could handle the
>commitment part.
>>
>>Romy ~taking another bite of that chocolate bar~
>
>Mystic ~about to go and get tested in the game of LOVE~

>Cananyone help me please i need advice, You see i have a friend named meghan, i've known her sence i was two, last year we tryed the dating thing but it didnt work, why, i do not know. This year something happened to me and i saw her differently then before she was beutiful and her eyes glew, i knew i had fallen in love with her. I helled it in for a long time till i could no longer. One day online i told her she said nothing not i love you to or why or anything, she jest said nothing, the biggest thing in my life, and she said nothing! Any way I still love her and she has a boyfriend and its eating me up. I dont know what to do it's been two months and nothing has happened what do I do, I can forget about her and i cant stop loving her. Do waight for my turn, "if it ever comes" if you have any thing e- mail me please. I need someone to talk to about this please, James Matthews

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