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Prof. Bob (Pycho-Anaphyletica)
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Date Posted: 13:03:21 08/31/06 Thu
In reply to:
Michelle
's message, "Is this the right approch?" on 07:16:25 03/16/06 Thu
Every Question brings more questions.
He left you for someone else. This indicates he was missing something. It could be adventure, good sex, a feeling of being something special, whatever.
My advice to you is to ask him straight to his face, what it was he was missing in your relationship. Be careful, he may lie or avoid the question. If he does, it probably means he does not know himself. Men rarely ponder relationships as women do. They are much more direct. or simple if you prefer.
Whatever he answers, go away and consider if it is true or just his perception. When you are clear about your thoughts, go back and ask him for answers to the new questions you now have. Don't keep telling him you can't live without him etc. Men hate hearing that because then, in their minds, you are now forcing him to make a decision, men hate making emotional decisions so often get annoyed instead to cover their discomfort.
Whatever you do, do not go back to him!!!
If he wants, he'll turn up at your door with a bunch of flowers and be as nice as can be to you. You then make the conditions for taking him back. But I still advise against it.
Manly regards,
Prof. Bob
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