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Date Posted: 11:40:29 05/05/05 Thu
Author: Jean
Subject: people
In reply to: Bee 's message, "okay...but here is what and why I was asking" on 23:01:45 05/04/05 Wed

people who have a problem drinking many times hid it. So there may not be any signs.
Also the families of these people are many times silent about it.(you get really good at hiding the fact that someone in your family has a drinking problem.
I remember once when I was a kid I had to make up a story of what we had for Thanksgiving dinner..so no one would know I didnt have a Thanksgiving dinner that yr...because Grandma and Grandpa had been drunk.
Sometimes the only way to tell is to one, live with them, two be a drunk yourself, or three....lived with one at one time....cant explain it...its kindof like having a built in ray-dar for that kind of thing.

I wish there was some simple signs to give you so you would know..but there isnt. If the promblem drinker dosnt want you to know you more than likely wont know until it hits you between the eyes.

Drunks make no sense whatsoever.....there is no rhyme or reason to them.
They can be the best, smartest, kindest, nicest person you know...but then they have this dark side.

I'm sorry there is just no simple signs to look for.


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