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Subject: Re: cari penyelesaian

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Date Posted: 06:28:37 01/06/10 Wed
In reply to: meng 's message, "cari penyelesaian" on 22:56:30 01/05/10 Tue

salam...bg sy, antara tunang dan ayah...siapa yg lebih awak sayang??jgn fikirkan sangat tentang perasaan org yg tidak ada pertalian dgn kita(sebab bukan mereka yg membesarkan kitapun) kerana akhir nanti apabila kita dn dia saja yg melayari rumahtangga, awak yg terpaksa menanggung semuanya...kesalahan yg dilakukannya itu hampir menunjukkan sikapnya yg sebenar...awak pastikah dia akan menyanyangi awak selama2nya dgn sikapnya begitu sedangkan kita tahu ayah kita sudah pasti menyanyagi kita selamanya...bahkan kalau kita menghadapi kesukaran dan suami pulak tiada d samping untuk membantu, biasanya ayah dan ibulah yg akan membantu kita tanpa mengharapkan apa2....lagipun susah untyuk mengubah org yg bersikap ego ni...kalau awak memang dianugerahkan keupayaan utk mengubahnya, wallahhualam...itu, awak sj yg dapat menentukannya.....kalau awak hendak memutuskan prtunnangan dgnnya...apa yg awak perlukan ialah kekuatan utk melakukannya...cuba kumpulkan kekuatan tersebut dgn apa cara pn....bila awak menyedari awak telah melakukan sesuatu yg betul selepas itu walaupun pahit semasa menghadapinya, awak akan merasa bersyukur dgn keputusan yg awak buat....apa2 pn terpulang pd diri awak, tiada siapa yg dapat membantu awak...kerana awak sendiri sedar apa yg dilakukan itu salah...tepuk dada tanyalah selera...awak bukannya menganiayai dirinya tetapi dia yg menganiayai awak dn keluarga awak......fikirkanlah

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