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Subject: Re: runtuh rumah tangga


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cempaka sari
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Date Posted: 18:00:16 12/28/09 Mon
In reply to: su 's message, "runtuh rumah tangga" on 18:02:44 12/19/09 Sat

tiga - lima tahun pertama yg sy lalui sama seperti sue..sy lurus dn mengikut je rentak suami.proses menyesuaikan diri atau dlm erti kata lain, cuba menerima keburukannya yg sukar diubah tp dlm masa yg sama kita cuba mengubahnya perlahan2...kita juga perlu ubah sikap kita yg buruk..jgn harapkannya sahaja...tk adil tu...memang selalu makan hati...tp semasa usia perkahwinan kami yg dh hampir masuk 11 tahun ni.....kami jarang bergaduh teruk2 spt dulu...malah sy rasa dia semakin matang dn jarang meluangkan masa diluar jika tidak ada aktiviti yg berfaedah.pastikan bila dirumah dia mahu berbual atau berkongsi cerita dn bergelak ketawa dgn kita....kalau tk, kita kena lakukan sesuatu sebelum suasana rumah tangga menjadi 1 persekitaran yg membosankan.wallahuallam..pndpt sy, jika tidak ada keslipan besar yg dilakukannya(anggap shj itu bukan kesilapan besar kerana banyak lg kesilapan besar yg org lelaki mampu lakukan)su bersabar je, ikut rentak dia...boleh mengomel sekali sekala tp jgn terlampau sbagai peringatan yg kita tdak suka dgn perbuatannya itu....bila bersamanya bercerita atau lakukan perkara yg dia akan berasa seronok bila bersama kita..sekali sekala lakukan sesuatu yg menarik yg dapat membuat dia terhibur dgn gelihati dgn tingkah laku kita..(jgn buat perkara bodoh yg buat dia makin menyampah pulak)..sbb sekiranya dia berasa bosan dgn kita, itulah salah satu punca dia suka nk angkat kaki keluar dr rumah..emmm satu lg, pakaian dirumah kena up to date....pendapat sy je...kita boleh cuba apa sahaja ikhtiar demi sesuatu yg baikkan...insyaallah, kalau niat baik, hasilnya akan jadi baik....lastly, utk diri du sendiri, bila time dia keluar melepak dgn kawan2 dia, utk mengurangkan tension su, lakukan aktiviti yg dpt menghiburkan atau membuat su sibuk dr asyik memikirkan apa yg dia buat kat luar sana tu...

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