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Date Posted: Tue February 03, 2004 14:37:46
Author: 路人丙
Subject: Re: 回應愛與做愛
In reply to: ↖ 's message, "莱稲籔暗稲" on Mon February 02, 2004 10:19:51

如何定義愛和做愛,都會因人而異,
也直接受人的道德觀、人生觀和價值觀所影響。
也正因大家的道德觀、人生觀和價值觀不同,
所以就有不同的題。

我個人郤認為愛是有原則的,愛亦是有責任。
看似付出,郤又是得著的,
因為人會因愛而滿足和快樂
( 我相信這是造物主在創造時已將這律放在人裡頭) 。

人與人之間應以愛相待,
但並不代表每一人都適合與別人一起生活,長相廝守。
要一起生活彼此間要有所約束(至少也得要有這樣的心理準備),
一定要有很多遷就和忍耐,不要只憧憬著是很甜蜜的事。
兩個人生活久了,感覺或許會變淡,
當認識對方的缺點愈多時,或許人會有點受不了,
要長相廝守的話,更得要有責任和承担,
這不只是對對方的責任,更是對自己的承諾所當有的責任。
所以若覺得自己根本沒這樣的心,
或覺得對方根本辦不到時,最好不要考慮這種生活。
人對終生伴侣亦會有所要求,
如果明知自己是忍受不了對方的缺點,或所缺少的,
還是單身會適合些。

每個人對做愛也有不同看法,
有些人會覺得性是沒有約束的,
他們就會隨著自己的情慾想做就做。
有些人郤認為做愛只可和一個與自己真心相愛、長相廝守的人做的,
他們尊重婚姻,持守承諾,
也願為對方約束自己不正當的情慾,
就算將來感覺不再新鮮,仍會以愛維繫。
當然,硬將這兩種不同的人放在一起就會有衝突,
或許這兩種人是不適宜走在一起談戀愛的。

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  • Re: 莱稲籔暗稲 -- 隔, Tue February 03, 2004 16:25:07
  • Re: 莱稲籔暗稲 -- 隔, Wed February 04, 2004 13:08:32

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