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Date Posted: Thu July 17, 2003 12:11:16
Author: hello
Subject: 我不是怕閒話
In reply to: 丞相 's message, "不要緊啦" on Wed July 16, 2003 17:36:38

與其我有我講,
人又不會理會我所講的,
講多都覺得無癮。


唔好話自己好開明會接受別人的意見,可能在某些事上會(合自己心意的),但係大多數的事上是不會的,「意見接受,做就照舊」這句話都是不對的,如果真正接受,做就唔會係照舊的,就是因為你拒絕了這些意見,沒有接受,才會沒有改變。
人係好自我架!根本就有自己鶖M,當別人所講和我的思想不同時,或許會知道你講緊d乜,(但可能根本就唔知,還以為自己知,但講o既人郤明顯知道你是不知),只是這隻耳聽完,會在那隻耳出,根本就進不到裡面,甚至會很多話否定它,這是叫做拒絕,而非接受,因為接受是迎到裡面,而非拒於門外的。
真係唔好咁輕易話自己接受人o既意見,你只是叫人說來聽聽罷了,很多時都沒有接受的。
還有,什麼叫做「尊重」,如果自己認同的緊係尊重和欣賞,但自己不認同的時候,很多時雖然會說:「我會尊重你意見。」實際意思是你做你認為對的,我亦作我認為對的,彼此互不相干,亦不要免強我,我也不會免強你。這叫「尊重」嗎?我想這只是「和平共存」,或許是我對「尊重」這詞定得太崇高吧!所以我並不常會這詞。
或許你會覺得我是個不太接受和尊重別人意見的人,誠然,我的確如此,如果你肯留意下自己個心,唔係在乎自己說的話,而個人又有番咁上下真誠o既話,或許你會發現,你也是如此。

我並非針對你o地任何人,只係o係度發下牢騷o者!

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