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Subject: Its never to late.


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Terry
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Date Posted: 16:08:36 09/15/00 Fri
In reply to: Tommy 's message, "Re: Message to everyone, Exspecially Tommy." on 00:15:08 09/15/00 Fri

A man laying in his death bed realizes he is wrong. He opens his mind and heart to Jesus and asks for forgivness. In his life he did not realize what was happening until the end. Is he saved? Yes.

Moral of the story... it is never to late for anything.

To make that change, first you must realize that you need to change. Cant fix a problem if you dont know about it, right? Once you have established that you need to fix it, figure out a way. In your case, what I would do? I would make a concious effort everyday to look twice at all my thoughts and every situation I am in. When someone challenges me, I will give out 110% effort to meet that challenge. Whether it is a football game or a game of wits (or as sometime I get into at work, a yelling match! :>) Just be aware of everything and such. When asked a question or make a statement, think about it, and if it is what you beleive, then stick to your answer. Dont cave in and dont run from it. Stick with it and back yourself up. Give all the reasons and support for your answer.

Hope this helped.



> Terry,
> I know this sound pathetic to you but my dad never
> taught me that . He he let me run way from
> confrontaion over and over again and protected me from
> everything because he had such a hard life. How can I
> start over now? Isn't it too late?
> Tommy
> > Aparently I went off an hurt someones feelings while
> > trying to get them to open thier eyes and be a bit
> > more forceful and to earn a bit more respect from
> > people. I am a hardass. A 100% to the max, non stop
> > extremist when it comes to life. I am your typical US
> > Marine who is gung ho and ready to kill. If someone
> > says somthing and when you confront them, they run
> and
> > hide, I look on that as being a complete wuss. If
> they
> > stand up to that, stick with thier guns, and tell me
> > how they see it and why, hey... even if I disagree it
> > is all good.
> >
> > Tommy: I did not mean to offend you in any way nor
> did
> > I mean to start a fight. I simply acted this way to
> > get you to come out of your shell and fight back
> > alittle and earn some pride in yourself. To get you
> to
> > earn some respect from myself and the rest of the
> > people here. No one respects a coward. I act this way
> > daily and Ive got a crew of hard corps kick ass
> > Marines under me who dont take shit off no one. When
> a
> > boot (new guy) checks in, he is all scared and shaky
> > because of all the stories hes heard about the fleet.
> > I take that new guy, teach him knowledge, and give
> him
> > a pride factor and an unshakable confidence that
> > everyone in this world needs.
> >
> > Dont look at this as someone trying to beat you down
> > and hold you back. Think of it as someone hittin the
> > gas trying to speed you up. To boost you up higher in
> > life.
> >
> > I am not a bad guy and Im not out to crack gay jokes
> > and make you run and hide and drive you away. I was
> > trying to help you out, even though you didnt realize
> > it. Like I tell my Marines, I can not sit here and
> > explain every little thing that I do because that
> > negates the purpose of it.
> >
> > Stick to your guns, back yourself up, and no matter
> > what the outcome is, I will respect you a hell of
> alot
> > more than if you run and hide.

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