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Date Posted: 11:12:00 06/19/05 Sun
Author: Dio
Subject: Re: A Bittersweet Victory
In reply to: Toaster 's message, "A Bittersweet Victory" on 03:20:57 06/19/05 Sun

I'm not sure if I understand what you want advice about?

I read your LJ thingie.
First off, all of you are incorrect on stealing or fighting...

Second, odds mean nothing. When I was 18 (my very violent years) I was in a fight with 5 guys near a bar (my Gf lived near one at the time) and I won. I broke 1 guys arm and sent 1 other to the hospital. The other 3 didn't get up till the cops came. I was arrested and taken down town. Did anything good come out of this? no. I was released that night. This was also the same time I was heavy weight tae kwon do national champion (not bragging, just in case you don't know my past at all)

third, it is just damn beer.
"man raises his fists, he has run out of ideas" Some Chinese proverb.

If you want legal advice, ask your parents :)
I am a complete anti-violent man now..I haven't been in a physical fight for about 10 years now. I almost killed a man in my younger years..and would rather kiss a man's ass than have to go through that again.
Be the better and stronger man. A hug can bring someone down faster than your fist.
Kids change everything about you! You strive to be a better man and father every day..

I am thinking you want advice about what to do with all the ppl you were ina fight with. How to make things right?
Speak your feelings! Let everyone you were in a fight with know it was wrong and ask for forgiveness. Make things right. There is a good chance the kids you beat up were humiliated and will not talk to you. The ppl who were on your side, explain to them it was wrong and you will have no part in it again. Don't back down from your friends, who cares if they think your a wimp...when your not around and the conversation is done...they will respect you and know you are right....they may not say that to your face and call you a wimp, but they will. Lead by example.
Not sure what you wanted...or you just needed to vent. I am always a phone call away if you are having a really hard time or just need to tell me off.

Or you could invite the 2 kids you beat up over for a friendly gathering, buy them new beer and beat them again.

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