VoyForums
[ Show ]
Support VoyForums
[ Shrink ]
VoyForums Announcement: Programming and providing support for this service has been a labor of love since 1997. We are one of the few services online who values our users' privacy, and have never sold your information. We have even fought hard to defend your privacy in legal cases; however, we've done it with almost no financial support -- paying out of pocket to continue providing the service. Due to the issues imposed on us by advertisers, we also stopped hosting most ads on the forums many years ago. We hope you appreciate our efforts.

Show your support by donating any amount. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your contribution is not tax-deductible.) PayPal Acct: Feedback:

Donate to VoyForums (PayPal):

[ Login ] [ Contact Forum Admin ] [ Main index ] [ Post a new message ] [ Search | Check update time | Archives: [1] ]

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

Date Posted: 03:21:53 11/22/04 Mon
Author: David VanCleave
Subject: Marriage

I've been told before to turn my troubled marriage over to God. As we all know this is easier said than done. My wife has built a cold wall between us. I've ask her to go to a Christian counselor with me. Of course she refused, and I went by myself. But she sent a letter saying she still cared about me and she still loved me. But in the next paragraph said she wanted a divorce and for me to leave. Well I got the divorce papers but I haven't left yet. Her daughter has been in and out of jail most of her adult life. 7 months ago she was put back in jail and we couldn't afford to bail her out. In my mind this is when my wife started turning cold. Then about 1 month ago they lowered the bail and she asked me what I thought about bailing her out. I told her I would back whatever she wanted to do, so we got her out and moved her in with us. That's when she completely closed the door. Her daughter has court cases in 4 counties and it looks like she may be going back to jail. I really believe the stress of all this is what has gotten my wife down. She says it hasn't and that it doesn't really bother her at all. Now what I wrote this for to start with was to ask what you thought I should do. In the past she thinks I work real hard at doing the right thing but after a month or two it wears off. And she says this is why she's not willing to give us another chance. So I'm afraid if I just turn it over to God and go on about my life she'll feel like I don't care and have given up. I do care and do believe in the power of prayer and that's why I ask everyone to pray for us. I hope this makes since and you can get back with me. Gods Love to You, Dave

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]
[ Contact Forum Admin ]

Forum timezone: GMT-5
VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB:
Before posting please read our privacy policy.
VoyForums(tm) is a Free Service from Voyager Info-Systems.
Copyright © 1998-2019 Voyager Info-Systems. All Rights Reserved.