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Date Posted: 19:22:26 01/29/04 Thu
Author: Genna
Subject: Oh, Blade *laughs*
In reply to: Blade 's message, "whipped" on 12:45:43 01/29/04 Thu

Thank you Chel and Bren for your very very good advice(and Blade for his truly appaling version :))- I was so taken back when she fist told me that I had no idea what to say, went "What?Me? But Im...a ..I mean,uh, oh shit. Can I just phone you back?". Possibly not the best way to help her. ANyways, here is the unabridged story:
I was friends with this girl for many, many,many many years and, basically, it got weird and intense when I was about 14- she started rejecting me; it was all very typical teenage stuff, she discovered boys and I wasnt pretty or cool enough then (somewhat ironic in hindsight, no?). Anywho, it was a catalyst for crazy depressed teen Genna and I hated her IMMENSLEY for it, but forgave her ages ago. I really thought it was all over-esp. when we moved away 2 years ago (thats when I started coming here-man, how long has it been? I was fifteen then, and Im gonna be legal in just a few months. Weird). I started coming here to this lovley convent, and getting myself on the right track. About 6 mths ago, we started writng and phoning eachother again- I thought the distance had done us good: we were getting on really well. Then, a couple of days ago, we were talking and she told me how she felt. I was completely shocked- if it had been anyone else but her I would have thought it was a joke, but I think I know her well enough to tell by now. The thing is, I've always kind of idolised her- she's really pretty, smart, artistic. Even if she is les, I wouldnt have thought I'ds be her choice: Iv never considered myself beautifull or even particularly great-looking. I think, however, that I kinda get what was going on-her firends(our friends) are not very good at identifying and being there for eachother, and, yes this is mean but true, dont really know anything about the movies/music we listen to. I think she just got all mixed up after talking to me. After she told me, I asked her if I could have a couple of days to sort this out in my head, and then phone her. Not that I had anything to sort,really, the answer is, and always will be, no. Im straight, and even w/out that, I dont need a crazy relasionship to deal with this year. Thats the truth. So, after reading what u said, Bren, I spoke to her (and diddnt use Jesus as an excuse :)), she's pretty messed up about it. I was nice about being rejecty tho. Tell me what u all think? Gen

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Replies:

I think i want to met this other girl -- Blade, 01:37:24 02/02/04 Mon
- blimme, 2 much info, blade,genna,bren and chel. -- sharon, 19:45:56 02/02/04 Mon
  - I like Steve -- Blade, 20:59:54 02/02/04 Mon
    - Tell STeve Im still a minor... -- Genna, 22:58:55 02/02/04 Mon
      - good for you Gen -- Chel, 08:43:47 02/03/04 Tue
        MMMM that seems reasonable -- Blade, 14:37:20 02/03/04 Tue
        Dont listen to Blade, Chel, he sounds lovley -- Genna, 18:48:13 02/03/04 Tue
        No not at all -- Blade, 12:20:36 02/04/04 Wed
        what a load of bull! -- bren, 14:44:10 02/04/04 Wed
        Heh..Bren, you are duly recognised.. :) -- Genna, 21:36:20 02/04/04 Wed
        yes -- Blade, 13:32:09 02/05/04 Thu
        lets just all agree -- Chel, 09:23:27 02/06/04 Fri
        I have a GF chel -- Blade, 11:01:16 02/06/04 Fri
        heheheh -- sharon, 17:26:54 02/12/04 Thu
        Ha! Oh, SHaron, this is why I like you... -- Genna, 18:46:43 02/12/04 Thu
        hahahahahah -- sharon, 06:08:08 02/13/04 Fri
        yes i think the ugly have a right to breed -- Blade, 02:28:38 02/15/04 Sun
        bob and I are living proof...... -- bren, 17:38:56 02/15/04 Sun
        good god -- sharon, 15:41:28 02/18/04 Wed
        Shame on you al *laughs, though she's trying hard not to* -- Genna, 23:02:10 02/18/04 Wed
        shes not -- sharon, 17:17:48 02/21/04 Sat
        Ha! (NT) -- Genna, 21:28:04 02/25/04 Wed
        well! -- bren, 07:07:11 02/26/04 Thu