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Date Posted: 20:32:19 11/24/01 Sat
Author: James
Subject: 21/m

Hello, my name is James, I am 21/m. I am looking for a gay or bi friend who is 18 - 21 or so. Well actually I am in need of some advice.
I have a friend named Ryan who is 17. He turns 18 in a few months. So far our relationship (online) has been purely "just friends". However one time we were talking and he told me he was gay, and that he didnt like pussy.
But he then kind of made it sound like it was a big joke, so I played along. Although I really think he was at least partially serious.
The thing is, I really love him. Even if he didn't want to have a sexual relationship (when he turns 18) I would still just be happy being friends. But I really do want to be more serious and I dont know what to do.
Lately I've been sort of falling apart. I can barely talk to him because "us" is all I can think about. And if I try to bring it up he dodges it. But that's because I'm not being straightforward enough I guess.
I think he loves me. He has made a lot of hints, like how he wants me to move to his town so we can hang out. (we live far away from each other, both in US).
And lately he is never online because of being busy with his job and school and its making me depressed.
Well, if anyone has any advice, it is appreciated.

james

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