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Date Posted: 16:09:29 11/27/01 Tue
Author: Roger Henderson
Subject: Re: 21/m
In reply to: James 's message, "21/m" on 20:32:19 11/24/01 Sat

Hi James, I'm a lot older than 18-21 but let me make a few suggestions. First, stop beating yoursel up and enjoythe search. Sometimes the voyages is thru some pretty rough seas, but that makes the landing all the sweeter.Believe I know that any time you are in love or think that you are(it doesn't make any difference which) it still hurts just as badly when it is not returned for whatever reason. But the one thing that all of us come to realize somewhere along the line is that we must let our friends and lovers, real and imagined, have their own space.. We love them for who they are and what they make us. But that person became that object of our affection in his own world. He has to function there. and we mustlet him do that or we change hime into someone other than the person we grew to love in the first place. Love is a many headed monster as well as a sweet piece of candy. So my advice, hard as it may be is to let your passion cool. Give it a couple of weeks and then try to contact him. Sometimes time and distance create an objectivety that is lacking when we are too close to the issue. James if you wish to talk further email me,. >Hello, my name is James, I am 21/m. I am looking for a
>gay or bi friend who is 18 - 21 or so. Well actually I
>am in need of some advice.
>I have a friend named Ryan who is 17. He turns 18 in a
>few months. So far our relationship (online) has been
>purely "just friends". However one time we were
>talking and he told me he was gay, and that he didnt
>like pussy.
>But he then kind of made it sound like it was a big
>joke, so I played along. Although I really think he

>I think he loves me. He has made a lot of hints, likeJam

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