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Date Posted: 18:43:46 10/04/01 Thu
Author: vit
Subject: 眾生的愛情
In reply to: vit 's message, "泛論愛情" on 18:35:19 10/04/01 Thu

甚麼是愛情?單一個愛字,獨一個人,可以完成愛,比如暗戀;對人有情,就算別人未必一定回報,也可以有單一個情字。要愛情兩個字合一,一個人必要尋尋覓覓,找到合拍的另外一個為止(眾裡尋他千百度)。追求愛情的人,首先要明白自己要的是甚麼。曾經擁有還是天長地久? 物質文明世界,人際關係開放複雜,外表內心的偽裝不易識破,另起爐灶又易如反掌,曾經擁有式的愛情,成為普羅大眾高舉的口號其實不難明白。愛情需求靈肉一致,不能同步的話,極少數追求靈魂滿足多於肉體滿足的人可以擁有愛情,如果幸運地對方也有同樣的傾向,更幸運的是遇上一個高貴無比的靈魂。純是肉慾的愛情,不可能天長地久,因為肉體週圍到有,而且有價,不分性別。同一個時間的愛情只可以滋潤兩個人,不可以多,因為同時愛上兩個人的所謂愛情,其中最少的一個, 必定背負了人性虛假黑暗的一面,更多時其實是涉及的全數人皆是。自我中心的人喜歡問:對方的愛情經得起考驗嗎?永遠要記得,只可以考驗自己。愛情講求付出,付不出的人,永遠沒法取回。走到尾的愛情會變成平淡的感情嗎?不會,這是我多年來觀察金庸夫婦的結論。會的話,不要怨天尤人,只好怪自己。

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