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Date Posted: 03:33:05 10/07/01 Sun
Author: vit
Subject: 愛的反面
In reply to: vit 's message, "眾生的愛情" on 18:43:46 10/04/01 Thu

最偉大的愛是沒有條件的愛,德蘭修女見證了給我們看(註)。
男女之間的愛,錯綜複雜, 好難說沒有任何條件,但由兩個人之間的愛伸展出去,無論是求還是受, 有心的人終於明白,愛原來要包容很多附帶而來的感情。也因為如此,愛會把心意伸向其他的層面. 一刻的溫柔原來可以叫人感動;一個微笑可以溶化冷面;多了一份同情少了怨氣;沒有愛,人不會知道自己的價值。
但很多時愛會演變為恨,尤其是求的一方求不到手時,恨往往暗生。
愛有一種佔有的情意結,佔有不到,也會暗暗懷恨。
但這都是不成熟的感情,假借了愛的名字。
來去還是要回到原本的說話,愛一個人,而又不能從對方的角度看清楚現實,滿懷的又只是衡量收穫,愛變成了虛假的手段。

(註:德蘭修女是其中一個例子。日前捨己救人的消防隊長,世貿悲劇其中一遇難者的父親悲鳴喪子之痛,但悲天憫人說:如果開戰,世上會有更多的父親失去了兒子。這都是滿懷愛的人,從他們愛的心,我們知道沒有條件的愛,是值得我們學習如何去愛的最後歸宿。)

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