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Subject: Re: Adoption vs. Natural


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Fiona Werther
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Date Posted: 13:09:55 05/02/05 Mon
In reply to: Miranda 's message, "Re: Adoption vs. Natural" on 10:52:06 05/02/05 Mon

Hi, Mr. Graza

I've adopted two children so I have a little experience with this. I agree with the lady above that adopting needy children gives them a better chance at life. It also makes you feel really good.
My first child, Sharlene, had a really difficult life before she came to our family. So, she gets in trouble alot, but we're working with her and I keep encouraging her to be nice and slowly we're seeing her change. My second adopted child is Nicholas. He's just as sweet as sugar and never gives me any trouble. He wasn't taken away from abusive parents like Sharlene was, because his mother died in childbirth and his father died soon after of a broken heart. I have four children and another on the way, so I don't know what it would be like to be a single dad. I guess it depends on whether you adopt a baby or a child. See, with a baby, you would need time off of work to take care of him and then also when he's a toddler, unless you want him to have a nanny. That could be hard on a single sim. But the rewards far outway the work of having children.
If you have it naturally, I would imagine that you're planning on staying single? Well, the child wouldn't have your last name and I don't think that they'd be eligible for an inheritance from you. You sound like a caring sort of guy, so I'm sure those factors would probably matter to you.
I hope this helps? Good luck with whatever you decide.

Fiona

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