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Subject: Re: Yes, We Are Alive


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klang wizard
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Date Posted: 19:18:05 08/25/10 Wed
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In reply to: Little Grasshopper 's message, "Yes, We Are Alive" on 08:02:21 08/25/10 Wed

>Regarding Relationship I wonder about this, from a
>woman's point of view. How many feels trapped in a
>loveless marriage? And it started so well, and daily
>irritations were minor. Or were they?
>
>Life Together
>
>We were young and we fall in love
>We expect everythings will fit hand and gloves.
>
>Reality of Life Together soon sets in
>But we prefer to ignore minor sins.
>
>She ask, "Where have you been?"
>He tells a white lie, to her chargin.
>
>The tooth paste cap is left off and wet towel on the
>floor!
>There begins a minor sore.
>
>But it is such a small matter.
>And maybe things will become better.
>
>"I will pick up after him."
>And she responds to all his whim.
>
>Maybe 7 years, maybe 50 years
>She can only take so much before her silent tears.
>
>Kids have all grown up.
>Her growing frustration can no longer shut her up.
>
>She wonders "Will he ever grow up?"
>Courage for a relationship breakup?
>
>She thinks "Perhaps one last chance
>Before we finish our last dance?"
>
>We did promise "Till death do us part"
>And I did give him my heart.
>And for the sake of the family let's not part.
>
>LG


Here's my response:

MARRIAGE: THE H MODEL

Falling in love is blind;
Even the pimples appear divine.
Never mind the wet towels on the floor;
Cigarette-butts, empty cans and all kinds of eyesore.
Hoping the bad habits, with love-magic, will change;
Not until the partner become derange.

Couples must stand in love.
The care and relate grow on earth, not above.
Give the partner all your heart;
Mutual respect and autonomy: bonding the smart.

NB The H model: The two vertical bars are earth firmly on ground; each represent autonomy and respect. The horizontal means the bonding; meeting each other at the mean.

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