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Subject: Re: When it rains, it pours ...


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Date Posted: 06:32:23 02/22/11 Tue
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In reply to: Little Grasshopper 's message, "Re: When it rains, it pours ..." on 05:16:39 02/22/11 Tue

Many thanks for your kind words, Klang Wizard, LG.

Now getting ready for the final prayers and the funeral to follow this morning.

Meanwhile, I will share with you some words I penned for my Facebook announcement for my mother-in-law's passing.

When it rains, it pours!

One bereavement not over, and yet another has begun,
Now it’s Amah lying lifelessly in splendour of her brocade,
a pearl clasped by her lips, her face serene in contentment.
She lived a full life, saw her children grow up and prosper.
Her life’...s work done, she’s ready for the next destination.
No pain of age, nor pain of disease to trouble her any more
And so she lies there serenely, enjoying her eternal peace
and so I wonder, should be weeping or celebrating her life?

I guess the events of last 2-3 weeks have been so overwhelming that I have been wearing my heart on my sleeve, my apologies to all.

Hari

>Hari,
>
>I am not a religious person, and I cannot offer any
>words of wisdom in the religious sense. That said, I
>share with you my experience, as a way of sharing
>loads and life's unfolding chapters:
>
>In 2004, I lost my mother, my mother-in-law and my
>father in-law. All in a year, in fact in a space of
>months. In 2008, I lost my best friend and within
>weeks, lost another good friend. They were not
>particularly old, just over 50s, below 60s. I still
>grieve but as each day passes, it's better, only in
>the sense that I have come to accept death of friends
>and extended family members if we ourselves live
>longer.
>
>On the flip side, an old friend who is a grandson of
>the Chinese pioneer whose life story we have been
>researching celebrated his 100 years old last month.
>He is still going strong.
>
>We pray all rest in peace. My thoughts with you. You
>take care.
>
>Regards, CYM
>
>
>>>And today afternoon, i.e. Sunday at 2.45 pm my
>>>mother-in-law passed awsy. When it rains it pours
>...!
>>>
>>>HSS
>>
>>HSS,
>>If we live long enough , we shall experience and
>>observe more suffering (and joy); that's life! Don.t
>>take it too personal or too badly. Similar tragedy in
>>my family. Lige goes on ...
>>
>>Sorry, not much of comforting words ...

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