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Subject: Re: Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...)

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Kel

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Date Posted: 09:05:08 02/20/06 Mon
In reply to: Matthew 's message, "Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...)" on 21:10:07 02/16/06 Thu

Hi Matthew, If she is a RECOVERING addict, and not currently using and having trouble with intimacy it could be because while using the addict will do ANYTHING to get more of the drug. It could be that she has done some things she is not proud of and when she attempts to be intimate with you, her mind goes back there, kind of like a flash back. It could be that she is so ashamed of her sexual behavior from when she was using that it makes it difficult for her to be in a normal love making relationship. If she has been recoving for only a short time, be patient, it may just take some time. But if it has been a while maybe she needs to consider professional help.

After I had found out my kid was into meth and after I had to clean out her apartment, I found her journal. I read it. The sexual things she has done for drugs made me physically ill. If your girlfriend did the kind of things my daughter did, it will probably take a mental toal on her and my take time to get over.

Also Matthew, please consider, an addict is NEVER cured. Always recovering and can relapse at anytime. Protect yourself, your heart is too precious to put it out there to be stomped on. I am not saying people can't change. And I am not saying a recovering addict doesn't deserve love. What I am saying is for you to be very careful because if she goes back...you're the one who will be hurt. I just hate the thought that you would be here like the rest of us, hurting and only have this message board to turn to because nobody else understands.

Peace to you...Kel

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...)	Lori	12:51:10 02/20/06 Mon
Re: Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...) -- Kate, 20:46:31 02/20/06 Mon Re: Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...) -- doug, 08:16:38 02/21/06 Tue Re: Meth and Intimacy? (New to posting...) -- Kel, 08:42:51 02/21/06 Tue