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Subject: Dawns' update

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Dawn

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Date Posted: 19:32:06 03/04/06 Sat

Hi Guys,
I rarely come here any more but I was thinking of all of you. Glad to hear Kelly 2 you are doing well. Heather I'll have to go back and read some posts to get a hold of what's going on in your life.
For me... things are ok and stable.
My husband (still not divorced) has been clean for many months? I don't rally know how long. We see him maybe once a month. He looks well. He sounds well. And now he is left at putting back the pieces of his self destroyed life. He is only now admitting what he's done is because of drugs.
He has no where to live because he can't afford to heat his cabin. So he's been living with his mom about 10 hours away. I'm so relieved when I know he's that far away! He hasn't worked or paid support in nearly 8 months. He has tons of legal problems and every time he makes a tiny bit of progress something else happens.One car repossesed, one car impounded for driving on a suspended license, He can't begin court ordered community service (costs $170!) He hasn't got a dime. When he's in LA he stays at his dad's. He still tries asking to stay in my garage. It's just so sad. And I have no feelings for him anymore.
Is he ever going to get through the aftermath of this?
I (& the state)have a lien on some property he's selling and I almost feel guilty ( go figure!) because he's really counting on that cash and it's going to go to me & the kids. He'll be shocked when this happens.
I've had one job so far and loved it but just resigned for something more full time. I'm working with a career coach right now. YUK, I really don't wan't to work F/T.
My kids are doing well. 11,8 & 6. We've finally settled into the groove of what kind of family we are now.
It's like we're traveling one road and "dad's" on a different road way behind us. He just needs to keep out of our way so we can succeed.
Life is tough & this is nothing how I thought my life would be... but God is good.
Take care all, and to any of you (especially single mom's beginning this cruddy road....Stay Strong and be faithful.
love,
Dawn

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Dawns' update	SUSAN F	20:25:15 03/04/06 Sat
Re: Dawns' update -- dawn, 20:03:08 03/05/06 Sun
Re: Dawns' update	Heather	20:48:11 03/05/06 Sun
Re: Dawns' update -- Dawn, 18:19:24 03/06/06 Mon