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Subject: Re: Not sure......are they using again?


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Tiff
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Date Posted: 05:42:31 11/08/07 Thu
In reply to: SUSAN 's message, "Re: Not sure......are they using again?" on 16:55:39 11/01/07 Thu

well, took all the advice, even gave a 2 month notice regarding babysitting....my brother HIT the roof and left several messages calling me every name in the book, asking me what changed from the week before (obviously forgetting that he had done the same the week before as well as threatened me!!) Then proceeded to call me a pill-popper selfish b#$%#....Truth be told I am taking pain medication for the car accident i was in a month ago...but i only take pain medication and muscle relaxer at bedtime b/c i have children here and i need to be coherent at all times...i would rather have the pain than be hazy with young children. As of right now the only way i can sleep is with medication....but physical therapy is helping. I also take lexapro since my 3rd child....post partum and its just helped my moods.

look...here i am justifying something that should be obvious as wto why i am taking what i am taking and teh fact that i dont even take the pain meds until bed.....BUT i let his message truly get to me! so

here is the worst part, all this was said on my answering machine and it was up loud enough for my children to hear.

Then my brother and his fiance ended up fighting and she ended up at her parents with the baby. she is lying too...i think to cover thins up for him though. She did say she is worried what he might do if she left him....

my brother proceeded to cuss out her mom as well....but what i don[t get is that there is obviously a problem here BUT becky still went back to the house with the baby the very next day....how can you continue to stay there WITH your innocent child!!!! it boggles me! and i am also upset with myself just for letting him manipulate me and then i end up crying about something he says of does....what if anything can i do???

i did leave him a message early saturday (since i knew he would be passed out early) and just told him how much i loved him, and that i want to help...if its not drug induced as he says its not....then let me help him....still have no response.

thoughts?? support??? i am so helpless.....

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Re: Not sure......are they using again?Heather13:22:06 11/08/07 Thu
Re: Not sure......are they using again?Shari19:28:07 11/08/07 Thu
Re: Not sure......are they using again?Been There13:49:37 11/12/07 Mon


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