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Subject: Re: It's been awhile

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Heather

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Date Posted: 12:46:53 03/21/08 Fri
In reply to: Shelly 's message, "It's been awhile" on 16:25:35 03/13/08 Thu

Nothing is wrong with you.....how weird, but I am feeling the same way too. But you know what, I went out to the tanning salon, I'm on my way to get my hair straightened and You just gave me the push I needed to get out and do my walking.

Think of things this way; you can go back to feeling like a mental case, or you can show yourself that you learned a valuable lesson and keep your head on the right track.

Hard, I know....I am where you are although he is around, helping parent my son and we have not argued once. Ahhhhh how nice right? Sure, I'm very happy that he is helping and being involved, but what do I do with the love I have for him? I wish it would just go away. Believe me I have prayed......So anyhow, I am keepin boundaries, loving hom from a distance and working extra hard on loving myself much much more so that I don't fall in to any trap. I don't believe he would do that to me now because he does not feel the same as I do. It does not feel right to him and that is ok. We are learning to be friends for our sons sake.....oh bu it kills me that he is so cute and sexy. I realized all he is looking for is some positive reinforcement and some attention just like a kid looks for. Yes he is just like a kid most of the time. Tends to business when he absolutely has to, other than that, I don't ask about his personal life nor do I allow him to tell me. I don't let him ask me questions either. Love is love no matter what has happened and those details would still wound my soul and I just don't want to go there.

I am staying strong and I want you to stay strong too.

Heather

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Re: It's been awhile (NT)	Heather	13:10:49 03/21/08 Fri