Yes I have said NO and I am keeping to it. He sent a letter after I told him not to. He thinks he is untouchable but he is not. He is being released 4/6 but will be held until INS picks him up for deportation trial. I have filled out victim paperwork for my son and myself so the authorities will let him know not to contact me or my boy. If he does, he will get more time. I have also requested that part of his parole be that he cannot contact us or live in the same county.
I am doing it and I know it should have been done a long time ago before my son got to age 7. I hope he understands when he is older how much I tried to protect him so he can have a good life. He is a great boy and is doing better than ever now. I will not allow disruption.
I love my kids very much and I love myself. I still feel guilt in my chest or actually I think it is fear.
Melinda - Congratulations on being part of the statistic and staying on the right path. I am very proud of you. =)
Thanks for being there for me too back in the days. You helped me more than you could ever realize. =)