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Subject: Re: Child Support

Author:
Shelly

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Date Posted: 14:39:35 09/20/06 Wed
In reply to: susan 's message, "Re: Child Support" on 18:25:07 09/19/06 Tue

I can only go after those things (taxes, assets, etc) if he STOPS paying child support. He is paying through our county $100 per month. The original order from 12 yrs ago when he was a full time student and bus boy. Aftet that he begged me not to have child support re-evaluated through the county so he and I mutually agreed upon $20 p/month + half of all dance costs, clothing, etc. which totalled about 6-7 hundred per month. If I had had child support re-evaluated when we made this agreement, I would have been issued over $1,000 p/month. But -I was nice and accepted what we agreed upon as long as he paid it, and he helped me out by taking her to dance classes 2x per week, had her when I traveled for business, etc. He has done none of it! So -he is paying the $100 that has been ordered -knowing that as long as he pays what he is 'legally' obligated to pay -we can not go after any of his tax information or assets. This man is a business man and knows what he is doing to avoid paying the support he should. I doubt he will go back to work -he will continue to buy and sell homes and therefore there is no proof of consistant income for the child support division to go after. I have been researching this for months now -and am told the same thing over and over again. I kept hoping to find a loop hole somewhere -but unless I hire an attorney to try to PROVE he purposefully is NOT gaining regular employment in order to avoid paying child support -I have not other options.
On the positive side -This just moves me forward to knowing that I am done with this loser! I will earn my own money, take care of my child alone, and he is the one that loses out on ever having a relationship with his daughter. Some day he will grow up and regret what he has done -by that point it will be too late to establish a bond with my daughter or for her to ever trust him. He thinks he is punishing me right now. Someday he will grow up/get clean/whatever and realize the only person he truly hurt was himself. Sad b/c my daughter is a great little girl who could have given him much joy in his life!
Thanks for reading this LONG post! :)

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Child Support -Correction/Typo	Shelly	20:46:22 09/20/06 Wed
Re: Child Support -Correction/Typo -- Shari, 07:31:13 09/21/06 Thu Re: Child Support -Correction/Typo -- Shelly, 14:53:20 09/21/06 Thu