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Subject: re: Christmas is soooo fun with addicts

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TR

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Date Posted: 14:19:27 01/02/07 Tue

How do you let go with love??? I hear this saying so many times but when you have to deal with them once a weak because of a court order how do you do it? And how do you let go when they keep suckering you in?

I've heard that when you accuse and blame an addict that it makes it only worse for them. My daughter is soooo good at turning that around or just denying it all togeather.

We had an inncedent at Christmas that I just wanted to kill her over. She ended up going up to her father's side of the family for Christmas with my son and Cerinaty (daughter/granddaughter). My daughter Anna ended up taking all the toys that Cerinaty got for Christmas from there and keeping them at her house. She thinks that she is going to be able to have overnight visitation so she wanted the toys there. I tried to get them back and ended up calling my lawyer and he told me that it wasn't worth fighting over so I gave up. I don't understand how she could do that, Cerinaty was upset because all her toys were at her mom's and she couldn't play with them. Also on the way home Anna got mad at Cerinaty because she was calling me mom and told her that my name was nana not mom.

When I confronted her about it she denied it and said that she would never hurt her daughter like that. I am so tired of it that I told her that I was through, that I wasn't going to allow her to do that to Cerinaty anymore and we would be doing visitation once a week....supervised. I just don't know what to do, I have bent over backwards to make sure that she could keep a relationship with her daughter but she is making it soooo hard. I don't know if she is using or not but her actions towards things are just like she could care less one minute and the next she is sorry for everything. Any suggestions would be great!!!!

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: re: Christmas is soooo fun with addicts	susan	19:11:02 01/02/07 Tue
Re: re: Christmas is soooo fun with addicts -- cindy, 07:34:34 01/03/07 Wed Re: re: Christmas is soooo fun with addicts -- TR (Tammy), 08:00:53 01/03/07 Wed