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Subject: Re: A quote from my father

Author:
Shelly

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Date Posted: 14:26:26 01/02/07 Tue
In reply to: Heather 's message, "A quote from my father" on 13:01:24 01/02/07 Tue

Thanks Heather for your input! It helps. I do want to communicate that my daughter and I rarely talk about her dad or his family. The only time we do is when she brings it up and wishes to discuss it or has questions. Each time I always am the one who lets her know that they love her -it's the sickness of the drug is what the problem is -nothing else. I am probably more than kind and gentle in what I say around her in regards to her dad and his family than I should be -but I don't want to impose my anger or frustrations on her. She even asked me if she could return the gift her grandma sent her back and I told her that would be rude and instead she needed to send a thank you card. I have kept every email correspondence so one day, when she is mature enough to handle it, she will read everything said between me and her grandma and me and her dad.
You stated blood is thicker than water, but the thing is -this is her only granddaughter -the only granddaughter she will ever have, yet she has been influenced by her son's believe that I am the evil one here and therefore shuns her flesh and blood -her grandchild b/c her son knows how to manipulate her and his entire family. It is sick to witness actually!
I am sure she will email my daughter today. I am fairly sure my daughter will simply not respond to her as my daughter is angry, but also past the point of being angry enough to even respond -if that makes sense. She's almost 13 so I will let her make that choice on how to move forward with his family.
I am hoping he does not show up in court tomorrow, they make a judgement, and then the rest in the hands of the courts (as I know he will not pay the amount requested). I will walk out of court knowing I did all I could for my daughter and release it. 2007 will be a year of healing and new beginnings for me and my daughter!! :)
Thanks again for letting me have this outlet to 'get it out' :)

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Re: A quote from my father	Heather	09:08:26 01/03/07 Wed