Re: MY HUSBAND COMITED SUICIDE TODAY -- METH HELP FOR FAMILIES

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Subject: Re: MY HUSBAND COMITED SUICIDE TODAY

Author:
Heather

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Date Posted: 21:14:28 08/27/06 Sun
In reply to: PLEASEHELP 's message, "Re: MY HUSBAND COMITED SUICIDE TODAY" on 17:09:50 08/27/06 Sun

Wow I am sorry you have to go through this. I don't really know what to say other than sometimes love isn't enough. I loved my husband through his addiction and recovery time and time again until I was blue in the face. It has to come from them. They have to love themselves. When I turned my back on him is when he got clean, but only clean from drugs not alcohol. His mind is still not clean for that reason. Sometimes he seems normal, sometimes his illness comes through really bad. He has finally apologized to me for everything he has done and let me know that it was his addiction and nothing I have done. So why does he continue to do the things he does to me like tell me he wants to be with me and then not do anything about it? When that happens it hurts so bad. I know everyone and every situation is different, but this meth is bad. VERY BAD. I think my husbands head has been affected to the point it cannot be fixed. Either that or he has something wrong with him mentally and I just didn't know. I mean I should have known. I'm sure your husband will be evaluated to the fullest extent after this episode and that is a good thing. I have to wait to see if a judge will order that. I hope things turn around for your family, just as I have prayed for mine.
I know you are hurting, I know that pain. I will uplift your family in prayer. Let God do his work.
I am fighting this so bad right now. It is hard to step back. It's hard to let go. It's really the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I only wish they could see from the outside how much pain is being caused then maybe they would not do those things.

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