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Subject: Re: Mothers day events

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TR

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Date Posted: 11:13:37 06/15/06 Thu
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: Mothers day events" on 14:58:41 06/07/06 Wed

Heather,

Thanks for those words. I haven't been on here for awhile because things are really getting crazy around here. I am getting ready for a family reunion at my house and since my daughter has gotten the adoption papers she keeps coming to our house to try and see her daughter. I have written a letter to her and gave it to her lawyer stating that she is no longer allowed at the house and that she is going to have to give 24 hr notice if she wants to see her daughter and that it is going to have to be in a public place.

I don't think she has came over once by herself and she is never alone when she sees her daughter, she always has some guy or girlfriend with her. I just think that if it were me I would be really selfish about my time with my daughter and not want to have anyone around. But then again I think that maybe she is more comfortable with someone being with her because she does not want to face me on her own. I don't say anything to her anymore, it doesn't do any good, about the adoption or cleaning up.

The part that I hate about all of this is that her grandparents and whole family is going to be here and I don't know whether to let her come to the house or not. I would love for her to be able to see everyone but everytime that she comes over when there are people here she plays mommy with her daughter and will let her do things that she knows that I do not approve of, like going outside totally naked, my gd is 3 and I just do not think that is acceptable for a 3 yr old to be running around a bunch of people naked.

I feel like I am being too hard on her but on the other hand when I let up she walks all over me and I am tired of it. Also, I don't think it does my gd any good to be around a lot of tension. Anyways, thanks again for writing that it really helps to hear other people's opionions on this.

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: Mothers day events	Heather	16:28:13 06/15/06 Thu
Re: Mothers day events -- TR, 07:49:41 06/19/06 Mon