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Subject: Re: So, this is where I am.....


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Melinda
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Date Posted: 11:42:41 04/29/06 Sat
In reply to: WorriedMom 's message, "So, this is where I am....." on 20:45:54 04/28/06 Fri

I am so sorry for the loss of you and your sons relationship.

I am a recovering addict. And right now I am concerned about you. I hope that you will hear my words and not think that I am being unkind.

You need to stop drinking. This is not helping the situation at all. It is just making things worse. I know that the pain of losing someone to meth is hard. But it will be 10 times harder to deal with the guilt of what now could very well be your own dance with the devil. You cannot help your son, but you can help yourself.

Ask God to hold you in his hands. Go to a meeting. Talk to us here. Do anything you have to, just don't beat yourself because of his addiction. It is not your fault he is addicted. There is nothing you can do for him, there is alot you can do for you. I will help anyway I can.

I hope that God will help you today, i pray that he does.

Melinda

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Re: So, this is where I am.....Debbie12:34:15 04/29/06 Sat
Re: So, this is where I am.....WorriedMom13:01:26 04/29/06 Sat


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